Competition: Win one of 5 free Fifty Shades of Grey Documentary DVDs

The team behind the documentary have an exciting offer for you this December. You have the chance to win one of FIVE copies of the DVD!

The DVDs are Region 0 and this competition is open worldwide. I have the DVDs right here ready to post to the winners. All you have to do is get your entries in on the Rafflecopter widget below – the more entries you have the more chance you have of winning.

The competition will end on 6 January 2015 at 10pm (UK time). Good luck everyone!


Competition: Win the Oh Mi Bod blueMotion Smart Phone, Bluetooth & App Controlled Vibrator

It’s all about the apps in the world of sex toys this year – and continuing into 2015 – so you’re going to absolutely love this new giveaway. Mimi De Luxe are giving away a sex toy which will cause you to be the envy of every vibrator connoisseur out there. You can win the brand new and technologically advanced blueMotion Nex 1 by Oh Mi Bod, worth £109!

Why should you want to win an Oh Mi Bod blueMotion vibrator from Mimi De Luxe? Well just take a look at some of its features:


Competition: Win a £50 free sex toys voucher for Thinking of Passion

Thinking of Passion are giving away a very generous prize to one lucky Cara Sutra reader this month: a £50 voucher to spend on sexy goodies of your choice from their online sex shop!
The winner will be able to use the voucher towards the very latest sex toys, that vibrator or dildo you’ve been saving for or to stock up with bedroom essentials such as batteries, condoms and lubricants. Perhaps there’s someone special who would absolutely love the Official Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys or an adventurous beginner’s bondage kit for Valentine’s Day?
While you’re at the site, make sure you don’t miss the regularly updated Thinking of Passion sex blog with plenty of sex advice and sexuality and fetish features.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Sierra Cartwright

She sucked a breath between her teeth. So, so much better.

“Did I get your attention?” he asked as he rubbed the tender spot.

“Yes, Sir,” she said. “Thank you.”

“That’s better.” He grabbed her ass cheeks like he had earlier and squeezed again.

She surrendered to the exquisite pain, letting her body go limp.

“Now, Sydney, I’m going to play with you the way I like to play with submissives. I want to ensure you get off, but this is about what I want, too.”


Blank page, blank mind: Dealing with writer’s block

It’s no use sitting gazing at a blank document for hours on end if the words simply aren’t coming. It could be that a short break will revive your creative juices (I find a shower or a bite to eat helps on these occasions) but other times it will just be that today is not a writing day. Every day is a writing day, ideally, but we don’t live in an ideal world. It’s time we were big enough and brave enough to admit that we can’t be the best version of ourselves absolutely every single day. We all have down days, off days and days when our brains just don’t work as they should. Accept it and use the time to do something else, something positive, while your creativity restores in the background.


Sex Toy Review Round Up: Hedovibes #68

Share to Win a £50 Town of Toys Sex Toys Voucher! (11/30)
Penthouse Variations on Oral (11/30)
Win a We Vibe Four Plus App Controlled Couples Vibrator worth £127.99 (11/30)
Win the ElectraStim EM60-E Flick and NEW Lula Electro Kegel Balls (11/30)
Cuffed & Spanked November (11/30)
Penthouse Variations on Oral: Erotic Stories of Going Down (12/1)
Super Duper 16th Anniversary Giveaway (12/1)

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Why You Shouldn’t be Ashamed of Your ‘Controversial’ Sexual Fantasy

Nearly everyone has a sexual fantasy or fetish that they are nervous revealing to a partner. It may be a pretty tame, run of the mill kink or a fetish that’s a bit eye opening, it simply doesn’t matter. Often, we’re so worried about pleasing our partner in the bedroom that we often push our own desires aside. Well, that’s just not fair! A big part of a good sex life is being able to communicate effectively, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be able to tell your partner about your fantasy – no matter how dirty it is.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Crissy Smith

He hunched over her, enjoying the feel of her nails across his back and the eagerness of her kisses.

He left her lips to trail down her chin to her neck. He played there a little before going lower.

Her full mounds fit perfectly in his hands. He teased her nipples with his tongue, drawing sharp cries of pleasure out of her.

“That’s it,” he whispered. “Give yourself over to me.”

She shook as he traced his right hand down her body to cover her wet pussy. She gasped when he pushed his finger against her clit.


“That’s right,” he encouraged. “Know who has you. Who you belong to.”

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Why Every Woman Should Let Go and Embrace the Slut Within

If you’re with the partner of your dreams, there’s still no reason why you can’t unleash your inner harlot. No, we’re not suggesting a foray into infidelity but rather, a different attitude to sex. Incorporating some bad girl sex tricks into your love life can be a great way of becoming more liberated in the bedroom. Be confident and make the first move when it comes to sex – and be upfront with some suggestions too. Perhaps there is something that you have always wanted to try with your partner. It might be something like dressing up and indulging in a little role play or something more daring. Bad girls don’t bat an eyelid at the idea of things like sex tapes and threesomes, so tell your partner exactly what you want. They’ll certainly be very pleased at you getting in touch with your slutty side!

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Smut in the City 2014: The Manchester Perversion

Lunch (and wine, sadly) was soon over, and my demo was first up for the afternoon’s fun. Charlie Forrest had stepped into the breach as my rope expert, and Mel helped out with some party games. After an introduction to the Fantasy by Cara Sutra Beginner’s Bondage Kit from me, Mel and an audience member were placed into rope harnesses by Charlie and presented to the room. The party games got everyone going – with MUCH assistance from Sister Jacqui Moff – and we even had a revealing display of male submission (and nudity) with the resident ‘puppy’ getting bound in the entire kit and naked besides, just Sister Jacqui’s fan preserving his rapidly disappearing modesty.


The best sex blogs round up: Elust #64

Welcome to Elust #64
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #65? Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

On a special note I want to mention that the judges voting on Elust is often very close, this month more than most. You all do such fine work that it is very hard for us to come up with the final results.

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A Sexy Night Owl on the Prowl

Maria smiled. Anal sex was something that she loved and she told the client that her back door was all his. She slipped out of her dress, exposing her high, firm breasts. As she bent to take off her shoes, her gorgeous, round ass was in full view of the eager man. She parted her cheeks with her hands to show him her puckered hole, and traced the rim with a red lacquered fingernail. Her sexy date moaned in anticipation.

Maria grasped the man’s hand and led him to the bed. As he laid back the sexy, Latin girl removed his pants, freeing his hard, straining cock. She ran her pointed tongue up the firm shaft of his cock, and lapped at the pre-cum oozing from the tip.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Raven McAllan

“Oh how pretty.” It was Jeff, her Sir. “Three obedient little subbies under the tree. Shall we let them open a present each?”

“Why not?” That was David, Jess’ Master. “I wonder if they can guess what they each get?”

“Well, let’s see.” Aidan, Ailsa’s Dom spoke. “Five spanks if they get it wrong?”

Kath wriggled, conscious if anyone looked at her closely her pussy and legs would be coated in her juices.

“And play with it if they get it right.” Jeff said.

“What do you say, pets?” That was Aidan again.

“Please, Sir.” Three voices agreed as the girls spoke at the same time.

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Female Friendly: Why Porn Isn’t Just for the Lads!

As most of us know, female desires are often a lot less straightforward than those of males. Men rely on visual cues to become aroused, so porn without a plot doesn’t really pose a problem. Hey, if they get down to it, who cares how long they’ve known each other or if he ever did fix the washing machine! On the other hand, we girls can be a little more selective. Any old porn won’t do, so we’re often left frustrated when we watch it with a partner. He’s into it, you’re not. Sound familiar? Well, here are some sites that cater to female tastes…

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Why I won’t be sleeping in the wet patch

I know what I want to happen after sex. I want to lay together, body to hot sweaty body, post-sex heat our only blanket, clinging together in glorious love – well, mainly stuck together with the velcro of rapidly drying bodily fluids. I want it to be just like ‘in the movies’ (films, for us Brits). To immediately drift into the deep peaceful sleep of the newly-shagged, in candlelight (without any thought of the fire hazard) and wake up in the morning still clinging together. As if we were Jack and Rose. Only Jack didn’t have to die and Rose let him climb on the damn door. My makeup would be absolute perfection through the night, until the sun’s rays gently woke us from nauseatingly romantic slumber. My pillowslip would most definitely not look like a clown’s washcloth. Nor would my face.

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The Periodic Table of Kink – A List of Kinks & Fetishes by Popularity & Perversity

Now you can see all kinks and fetishes in BDSM by popularity (taken from Google search results) at a glance, as well as a few of the more vanilla activities such as strip tease, tantric sex and masturbation.

It’s great to see more unusual activities featured on a table like this. Instead of merely bondage and spanking there are kinks such as ‘Sploshing’, ‘Cake Farts’, ‘Anal Gaping’, ‘Felching’ and the good ‘ole ‘Rusty Trombone’.