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Single Life, Sexuality & Dating: An Introduction

By Cheryl Kaye
Just a few years ago I was certain about so many things. I was positive I was ‘straight’, I could acknowledge that I found some girls more attractive than others but I figured that was just what everyone thought. Occasionally, I would think about what it would be like to kiss a girl, to taste her, to run my hands over her body, and to have her do the same to me. But I knew I loved cock, I wasn’t gay.

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Sex is not a race to orgasm

By Cara Sutra:
Sex is not a race to orgasm. I don’t have sex in order to have an orgasm and my partner doesn’t just fuck me so he can ‘shoot his load’ and roll over, done. Although my initial stirrings towards sexual activity can feel similar to the urge to masturbate, there’s a whole other layer of thoughts and feelings happening in my mind as well as the increasing demands from my clit and the aching of my cunt.

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What is a Female Led Relationship really like?

By Giles English
I’m typing this wearing a male chastity device and I don’t get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm…
And Xena’s in charge.

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Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex Toys & Butt Plugs

By Cara Sutra:
Bums. Everyone has one, and very useful they are too. Our undervalued derrières not only house the exit which keeps our bodies functioning healthily, but offer comfortable padding when we need to take the weight off our feet. Did you realise that your bottom also has the potential to give you incredible pleasure, as well as a mere sigh of relief any time you sit down?

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Cody Kmoch’s ll Beauty & Ecstasy Blog – Sex Blogger Spotlight Series

‘ll’ originally stood for lesbian lust. My big secret when I was a teenager. I used to sketch pictures and write little stories, and label them with my secret tag, then delete or dispose of them hours or days later when I lost my nerve. I’ve never been in doubt over my sexuality; but I think its strength might be a little unusual.

On being a mother and a sex toy tester

What’s it really like being a mother and a sex toy tester?

Being a mum is a hard enough job in itself, but mothers around the world take on a second job for a variety of reasons. Adding ‘sex toy tester’ to your CV might seem a strange choice, but what better balance to the challenging nature of motherhood than the pursuit of pleasure? I see more and more women balancing being a mum and a sex toy tester all the time, and as you can probably tell from this blog, I’m a sex toy tester myself. I’m also a mama to two beautiful boys.

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Sex Games to Spice Up Your Sex Life

By Mel MacFarlane
One of the reasons that I am a huge advocate of sex games, is that games such as Fifty Days of Play take away the predictability of foreplay and add something a little different into the mix. For those who are still a little shy in the bedroom, sex games offer a really good solution in terms of spicing things up without having to be too forthcoming.

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Beginner’s Guide To Sexual Lubricants

By Cara Sutra:
You’re in the middle of sexy time, they’re seeking out your hot spots with their fingers but suddenly… ouch. That’s not sexy at all. Sometimes the course of good sex doesn’t run smooth, and can in fact be a bit of a drag. That’s where sexual lubricants can help out. Lube is your super smooth new best friend, and I’m going to help you navigate the seas of this often underrated sex essential.

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Happy Easter: Let’s Talk About Sex And Religion

By Zak Jane Keir
Of course, it’s Easter, which is the Christian festival most associated with ‘fertility rituals’ and symbols that are not really that Christian at all – though there is still no agreement, let alone any proof, as to which specific ancient pagan feast inspired the annual celebration of eggs, bunnies, flowers and binging on chocolate. I wish you all joy and delight in the springtime, whether your bunnies are battery-powered or the sort that moan with joy when you wrap them up in rope, and if you want to mark the occasion by eating a Creme Egg off your favourite playmate’s naughty bits then go right ahead.

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What’s happening at BlogSpot at the ETO Show 2016

Following on from this call for BlogSpot at the ETO Show 2016 sponsors, I’m very happy to announce the several companies and fellow bloggers who have come forwards with support for this exciting project. Thank you so much – you’re making a bigger and better BlogSpot possible for everyone.

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Spring clean your sex life and try something new

By Cara Sutra:
As the weather turns warmer and brighter (long may it last) and the season rolls round to spring, thoughts do tend to turn towards spring cleaning. It’s in our nature. Spring is a time for new beginnings, fresh starts – whether that’s finally sorting out the cupboard under the stairs or taking all the old trash in the garage to the tip, finally. Perhaps this is the year you get rid of the worn out Christmas decorations and promise yourself you’ll be sensible and buy new ones in good time for December’s festivities.

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Lantana Bleu Writer Feature – Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Lantana Bleu is a former high-class call girl who now entertains by writing erotic romance novels with a literary and comedic touch. She was educated in classical literature and creative writing at the Interlochen Arts Academy in Michigan, the University of California at Santa Barbara, and The New School in New York City. She has also trained privately with master teachers in the art and craft of screenwriting.

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A Quick Guide to eXXXtreme Dirty Talk, by Cameryn Moore

By Cameryn Moore
Calling someone greedy, for example, and making them beg desperately for getting fucked, this is a classic domination combo. The same derogatory names that really hurt on the playground—“fattie”, “sissy”, “faggot”, racial slurs—can be put to good use in humiliation scenes. Even calling a person’s junk something that normally squicks them out—“cunt” instead of “pussy”—can flip your partner into a different and sizzling-hot headspace.