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A single person’s average number of lovers

By Hella Rude
I had a silly idea about a sexual equation to create an Averaged Singleton Statement to determine a single person’s average number of lovers.
A true reflection of our sexual habits would take into account the number of relationships we have had, how long those relationships last and the number of years we have been sexually active, so why not use that information to create a generalised representation of our single habits?

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: R Leigh

If you’re at all curious about, turned on by, or eager to improve your technique when squirting, then you’re going to love the author featured this week. It’s R Leigh in the erotic author spotlight and she has written several books dedicated to the hot topic of female ejaculation, aka squirting. Are you ready to enroll in Squirt School? Perhaps you’d like to read real life squirting stories? R Leigh has written the books for you.

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Barbie makeover by Mattel – reflecting diversity or just a way to boost sales?

So today I found out about Mattel’s Barbie makeover. Barbie’s unrealistic figure has been a cause of concern to women for years, not just mothers of their own sons and daughters who might play with Barbie dolls, but any woman disappointed in Mattel for presenting such a dangerous body shape as some kind of feminine ‘ideal’. It wasn’t just dangerous to the young girls playing with Barbie dolls who might think the stick-skinny figure is the only acceptable norm, or boys being conditioned to think that this figure is the only acceptable ‘attractive’ woman shape – it was an insult to women everywhere.

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The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Lust

By Jon Pressick
When it comes to sex, lust takes centre stage. Desire and craving are deliciously intertwined with sex—as they should be! Whether you’re in a committed relationship or keeping your sex casual, an absence of lust could indicate potential problems in your appetite for that situation.

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Anal sex for bum love beginners

By Cara Sutra:
Anal sex is still a taboo for many people, and that’s quite understandable. It’s your butt. You poop out of there. It’s very tight, so all the poop doesn’t just fall out. And you want to shove what up there? Surely it’s an exit, not an entrance. How can it possibly feel nice? And what about all the, well… poop?

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Kait Gamble

Kait Gamble invites you to read, escape and fall in love with her erotic romance novels. Stepping into the author spotlight at Cara Sutra this week, Kait shares with you details of her latest releases, as well as some tantalising free excerpts to enjoy. Put the kettle on, put your feet up and prepare to whet your appetite for more with these delicious sexy story snippets.

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Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM
We can’t even blame 50 Shades for the idea of ‘absolute’ submission, because it’s been around for at least 30 years. And, while Anastasia Steele might be a vacant fumbletrumpet who appears to have reached adulthood without even knowing what an email is, she does dump Creepy Christian more than once and even answers back from time to time.

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Avoiding accusations of content theft from bloggers

As there seems to be some mystery surrounding how to publish something from someone’s (my) blog without them (me) being annoyed about it and shouting ‘content theft!’, I thought I’d write about how anyone can put my content on their site and be assured I will have a smiley face, not that frowny-faced ‘take it down immediately or imma DMCA your ass’ look quite a few companies have left me with lately.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Natalie Dae

She unbuttoned his shirt, wrenching it from his body, discovering the defined muscles of his abdomen and chest. She unzipped his jeans, freeing his cock and palming it, the skin so soft, his dick hard and ready. Swirling her thumb over the tip, she massaged pre-cum over the head then fist-fucked his length with strong, swift strokes. She wished his fingers on her clit, and he placed them there as though reading her mind, his movements keeping pace with hers.

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The happiness of foot hugs

D and I have found that there are various little happenings that occur between us through the course of a day which, to an outsider looking in, show that we are in a relationship and share a loving bond. There are many outward signs of both an emotional and physical connection. It’s not always about the grand gestures, the PDAs. Sometimes it’s the way two people smile knowingly at each other, sharing a private joke in a look. The touch of a hand on the other’s back, waist or shoulder as they pass each other in a room. The way conversations have a tendency to get shorter, somehow feeling more intimate than coming across rude, as would be the case with strangers.

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How to write body positive erotica – by Victoria Blisse

By Victoria Blisse
Happy New Year! Welcome to your neuroses. It’s the time of year when the advertisers look into your soul, pull out all your worst insecurities and try to sell you some crap to make it all better. So to counteract the media wanting you to lose weight, enlarge your boobs, whiten your teeth and iron out your wrinkles I’m going to focus on being body positive and how you can practically add that to your work.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Nicole Delacroix

I could almost hear the screams from the Internet trolls on this one. I, myself, had serious problems with this question. Did I really want people to see the bizarre and twisted things I look up on a daily basis or did I want to live without Internet. I decided a little experiment was in order to help make my decision clear. Living without Internet seemed the easier of the two and in the South, especially where I happen to live, we have tremendous thunderstorms. I just needed a storm large enough to kill the power and I could gauge my reaction.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Valerie Brundage

Now I was completely naked and he turned me to face the street.
One storey below a delivery boy drove by on a bike but didn’t see. A couple on the beach across the grass looked up and were watching. Afternoon shoppers gathered. They all saw me, a nude woman at the full-length window…crying? He put his hand on the back of my neck, turning me forward into the full light of the afternoon.

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New Year’s Resolutions 2016 – 10 Surprising Promises To Myself

During Christmas 2015 I had the chance to reflect and reassess what I’m exactly doing here, with my blog, in life. What my actual goals are and what I want to get out of the work I put into projects. With that in mind, and moving on from the harsh realities of the past year noted above (and taking a pinch of inspiration from this excellent New Year’s Resolutions article by Hella Rude), I’ve written ten somewhat surprising promises to myself for the next year (and beyond) which will serve as my New Year’s Resolutions 2016.