Birthday BBQ at Kerrie’s

28th June was the date set for my mate Kerrie’s birthday bash; a BBQ at her and her man’s pad and a ton of other friends and family too. It was a really fun day and I ended up crashing for the night after chats til very late!

Huge thanks to Kerrie for inviting me/us and for all the fabulous food, drink and good girly times. Glad you liked my kinky presents ;)

PS I want your bathroom! Such an amazing bath.

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Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: HedoVibes #49

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Win the Segzi Stroker plus Cheeky Weekend Goodies! -by Cara Sutra (ends 7/27)
Giveaway: Red, White, And Blue (Two Prize Packs) -by BeckandHerKinks (ends 7/30)
Blog Anniversary Giveaway: 9 Prizes -by Kinky Biker Mom (ends 7/31)
Happy Blog Anniversary To Me -by JustLikeHeaven (ends 7/31)
Competition! – Time To Squirt Watch -by Naughty Toy Box (ends 8/7)
Win a $50 gift card to Good Vibrations when I reach 1000 twitter followers -by Property Of Potter

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Tamsin Flowers

Have you ever wondered whether zombies have sex? Fall in love? Lust after humans? The five stories in this red hot collection of zombie erotica will answer all these questions and more. Meet the Peeping Zom, who develops an obsession with a hot human blonde. Who looks after new zombies and teaches them the art of zombie love-making? And how would you react if the love of your life came home one evening with a zombie bite? Tamsin Flowers has written a collection of always entertaining and sometimes thought provoking erotic zombie shorts which will teach you one thing at least – zombies have the best sex!


Competition: Win the brand new Segzi Stroker for Men, plus couples sex toys & lube!

Segzi have recently launched their brand NEW masturbator for men, the Segzi Super Bumped Stroker. You can read my review for the Segzi Super Bumped Stroker here. This male masturbator, very similar to a Fleshlight at an amazing value for money price, is a replica of the vaginal entrance of the beautiful Karla Karter, a petite blonde girl next door with huge breasts and a cheeky grin.


Whirlwind of Fire

The evening passed in the usual blur where time speeds up and excitement is at a high. We got closer and closer during the evening and exchanged flirty banter and those looks. You know the ones. Curious, daring, challenging, knowing. Time was escaping us, rushing past in an echo of Alice in Wonderland madness. Swept up in her crazy hotness and wild fire we rebelled and kissed – and our lips then tongues meeting was fire to fire. The taste of not girl, but woman. Full knowledge and comprehension of actions, not some naive innocent who will later regret.


Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Teal Valentine

I’ve been reviewing sex toys for Lovehoney since July 2012 but never even considered the idea of starting a blog because blogs seemed like distant, magical things I had no idea about. I actually had one about a year ago but that was back when I abandoned pretty much everything I ever started so it didn’t last long. I finally decided I was ready to have another go early this year and just went for it after a lot of thought, planning and help from more established bloggers.

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Thanks to A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind for the amazing campaign of Adult Sex Ed Month

Adult Sex Ed Month has been an even bigger success than in previous years, down to the bloggers, writers, educators and sponsors involved but also because of one amazing lady, Bonnie from A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind. Working consistently long hours every day during June 2014 and no doubt before and beyond, Bonnie tirelessly campaigned on behalf of good sex education for everyone, formatting and scheduling posts, providing updated schedules of posts to everyone involved, reiterating the way the Adult Sex Ed month website and blog worked to people who continually asked questions of her (namely; me).


Sinful Sunday World Cup Competition: Win a massive Fantasy by Cara Sutra bondage kit prize bundle!

The huge Fantasy by Cara Sutra Sinful Sunday bondage prize haul:
A Fantasy by Cara Sutra beginner’s bondage kit in your choice of black or red
Fantasy by Cara Sutra bondage tape, red
Lady Finger Vibrator (kindly donated by La Boudoir Boutique)
Set of Vibratone Jiggle Balls (kindly donated by La Boudoir Boutique)
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Pubic Hair: Is it sexy or a turn off? Does it matter what you do with your pubes?

Bleached anal areas, completely (or at least mostly) waxed genital regions and surgically enhanced breasts and facial aspects make up the vast majority of female porn stars’ bodies, and male porn stars are pressured to keep up muscular appearances and a hairless, plucked and primped form as well. I can only think of a couple of exceptions. The ‘bear’ stereotype in gay porn, where an all over covering of hair is deemed attractive, or what’s known as ‘hirsute’ porn, usually heterosexual and specialist, where women display hairy vulvas that 70s adult mags would have been proud of.


Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: HedoVibes #48

GET WET with Wet’s HUGE Giveaway! -by Slutty Girl Problems (ends 7/27)
Giveaway: Red, White, And Blue (Two Prize Packs) -by BeckandHerKinks (ends 7/30)
Blog Anniversary Giveaway: 9 Prizes -by Kinky Biker Mom (ends 7/31)
Win a $50 gift card to Good Vibrations when I reach 1000 twitter followers -by Property Of Potter
Win Cara Sutra Bondage Tape when @CaraSutraLtd reaches 250 Twitter follows -by Cara Sutra


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There’s a brand new app developed for iPhone users, available from ITunes, called Sex 101. This app, developed by the people at The Sex Trend, utilises RSS feeds and other technology to build a feed containing recent posts and articles from popular sex bloggers and adult educators.Unlike having to put in your choice of RSS feeds into a feedreader such as Feedly, Sex 101 does all the hard work for you if an informative and regularly updated sex ed and sex blogging feed is what you’re after. You can access the most recent work from your favourite sex writers within moments, and best of all, this app is free to put on your iPhone or iPad!


Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Jennifer Kacey

Skye has spent her life being the perfect daughter for her prominent, wealthy parents. She says all the right things, wears all the right clothes…and lies through her teeth about the kind of sex she needs. The bland “gentlemen” she dates don’t know a thing about what gets her going—and when they find out, they run screaming. In her deepest, naughtiest dreams, she finds a man…or two…who knows just how to tie her up and tease her until she’s begging for more. But those guys don’t really exist, do they?


Feel the romance come alive with new surround sound Ladobi “porn earphones” from LovePalz

As we’ve discovered, ladobi is expanding the LovePalz design concept and creating more enjoyable possibilities in the auditory-porn film world. These earphones promise to make every moment, no matter whether you’re watching a porn film, having a webcam chat or session or other sexy conversation, even more intimate than ever before.

The components and materials which make up the ladobi earphones have been very carefully selected. The earphone cushions are made from medical grade silicone which lessens pressure on the ear yet is durable enough for extended wear. A duplex material and composite diaphragm keeps the mid to high frequencies clear and bright (such as speech) and the bass feel heavy and atmospheric (lower, guttural speech sounds as well as any sound effects and music).


Kink Links: The Erotic Gems of the ETO Show 2014

I’m very excited to share with you the products I absolutely loved at the ETO Show this year – and they didn’t even have a stand! Kink Links erotic jewellery.
The first few times Kink Links tried to meet with me at the recent ETO Show 2014, I was away from the stand I was exhibiting The Cara Sutra Collection Ltd on. I was in a flurry of meetings and networking, but Kink Links persisted and eventually found me at E4, my little corner of the large NEC exhibition hall.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Cava Supernova

In 2010, I found out my husband had been cruising for men on Gaydar and having sex with them in our bed. It was the final nail in the coffin – our marriage was blighted by his alcohol problems and his vile temper. The whole thing destroyed me, and the pain was mind numbing. I didn’t even cry for two years.
Just before Valentine’s Day this year, ‘something’ compelled me to write it down and I put it on my blog CavaSupernova. I’d started the blog to prove to myself I could still have a good time after nearly two decades of misery with my ex. I surprised myself that I’d written about something that had caused such intense pain.


Sexy book news! New release, Her Secret Past by Victoria Blisse & win a free signed copy

Yes, you could win a free author signed copy of Her Secret Past by Victoria Blisse! I have the copy right here, ready to post. All you have to do is complete as many entry areas on the widget as you like, and then wait for the random winner to be revealed after the competition closes.
This sexy book giveaway is easy to enter and open worldwide. You don’t even have to pay postage if you win, that’s all included in the prize. I’ll also throw in a couple of mystery sexy goodies!

The competition will end 18 July at 8pm UK time.


ETO Show 2014 Part Four: Monday with a Friday Flavour, Day Two

Oh, did I feel smug on Monday morning. No, not the award – which I was still in shock about – but the lack of hangover! With a smiley face and a clear head I reflected on this day a year before, when I had been so ill from the afterparty that I hadn’t been able to get up from bed until checkout time. In fact if I’d had my way I wouldn’t have left the bed for about 4 days, that’s how ruined I was. I’d sworn not to do that again, and despite worrying that a hangover was somehow inevitable with the ETO Show Awards, I’d avoided the usual after party punishment.