Sexhibition UK

Sexhibition UK promises steamy & sexy adult expo in Manchester this August

Bringing together erotica, fetish, catwalk shows, and five star gourmet dining with a seductive burlesque twist, Sexhibition will be a daring and sexy day out for those wanting to take a walk on the wild side..

We’ve also got a sneak peak at the Sexhibition cinema trailer, which is being screened before the showing of Fifty Shades Of Grey this coming weekend. Event organiser, Cheryl Smith explains, “The event of the Fifty Shades phenomenon is doing great things for British attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Whatever your opinion of the FSOG books and film, it’s got us all – especially women – talking about our fantasies and that’s got to be a good thing!”

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Fifty Shades of Grey: Not as badly written as you think

Although it topped bestseller lists around the world, E. L. James’ erotic romance novel, Fifty Shades of Grey, was widely panned by critics for its poor use of language.

The Grammarly team reviewed the book for spelling, grammar, and punctuation errors, and learned that — although there were some mistakes — the errors were in alignment with similar gaffes in celebrated romances. It seems that the language of love really is a language of its own!

Grammarly has reviewed a list of frequent grammar mistakes from Fifty Shades of Grey, as well as some quotes from classic romances that also make these mistakes — from Tender is the Night to Wuthering Heights and Pride and Prejudice.

Thanks to Grammarly for this insightful and interesting infographic exploring the ‘errors’ in Fifty Shades of Grey.

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Aaron assumed Valen meant the cum that kept landing on him. After it hit Aaron’s chin, Valen arched his pelvis closer and Aaron’s cheek and neck were the recipients of the next two shots of spunk. The fourth one landed on Aaron’s shoulder.

Aaron opened his mouth up to speak. He got no further than a startled sound when Valen swiped his fingers through his own cum then held them to Aaron’s lips.

Aaron’s belly fluttered and he debated what to do for all of a half second. He stuck his tongue out tentatively in case he absolutely hated the taste of cum, then moaned happily when he discovered that the salty flavor wasn’t bad at all. A little bitter. Aaron had always preferred that over sweet.

“Gods, that’s so sexy.” Valen pushed his spunk-covered fingers into Aaron’s mouth. “The things we could do together…”

Aaron sucked eagerly, both appalled and thrilled with his own daring.

“Fuck,” Valen gritted out. “Your tongue feels so silky. It’s made for my—” He pressed his lips together and yanked his fingers from Aaron’s mouth.

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Why you need to ditch the ‘I hate 50 Shades of Grey’ bandwagon

I didn’t want a man (or woman, as it turned out) to look into my eyes and say my name softly as he/she fucked me gently. I wanted to have my wrists held behind my back, I wanted a hand tight around my throat, I wanted my hair around a fist and my head yanked back as I was kissed so hard that I would think I was actually dying from not being able to breathe, for my lips and neck to be bitten until they bled and I had lasting bruises to wear with pride. I didn’t want soft sex in the dark I wanted flipping over and beating with the lights on full. I didn’t want private intimacy I wanted to have hot wax dripped over my tits with an audience watching. I didn’t want a long, hard cock with a rich suitor attached, I wanted the choice of a man or a woman as a sexual partner, to ride life’s taboos which had been denied to me for so long and to taste the most exotic (to some, obscene) pleasures that the world and other consenting people could offer.

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What I get out of locking a man in a chastity cage

For me, once this first stage is over it gets even more interesting and enjoyable. I find that we move into a more realistic stage where the defences are being broken down gradually and some resentment may even appear. The resentment towards the holder of the keys is in stark contrast with the internal desire to have their sex drive and activity controlled, as well as teased and actively denied by the one in the Dominant role. At this point the internal struggle in locked submissives is blatantly obvious to me as an experienced Mistress, and how they handle this part is fascinating to watch and be a part of. At times it feels like they are almost on the cusp of safing, then instead beg for release which is of course allowing the tease and denial to continue should I so choose. Once they are eventually released it doesn’t take long for the desperation to be locked up, controlled and denied to be felt again. In fact many chastity submissives have admitted that being released and having the physical release of an ejaculatory orgasm is an ironic anti-climax and an unenjoyable part of their sex life and/or kink.

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Adult event news: Sexpo UK coming to London Olympia in 2015

Sexpo is the largest ever sexual health and lifestyle exhibition and this year, for the first time ever, it’s coming to the UK.

Sexpo UK will take place at the London Olympia on 13-15th November 2015 and will house an exciting and colourful array of all aspects of sexual lifestyle under one roof. There will also be a vast shopping area here visitors can buy popular and the latest sex toys, lingerie, bondage gear and more from adult retailers. There will also be erotic book sellers and the ability to meet your favourite erotica authors.

The organisers promise a colourful visual feast of eye-catching and breath-taking live entertainment, mesmerising performances and sensational catwalk shows. You will be spoilt for choice. If you’re an adult film fan, you can meet your favourite porn stars and glamour models face to face for an autograph and a photo. You can even buy R-18 adult entertainment in this fully licensed environment.

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Love books? Love sex? You’ll love celebrating Erotic World Book Day 2015

Erotic World Book Day

Led by powerhouse columnist and erotic author Emily Dubberley of Cliterati, the world of erotic authors have united to create Erotic World Book Day. It is also being held on March 5th and it’s a cause that I fully support and hope you will be involved with too.
The main locations for Erotic World Book Day discussion right now are on Facebook (group and page) and you can also find out more through Cliterati’s twitter. Another great source of erotica information and news are the Smut UK team, also on Facebook and Twitter.

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For a really alternative sex life this Valentine’s Day, go vanilla

The world has gone bondage mad. As if unrestrained restraint ‘outrageously’ demonstrated on morning TV wasn’t enough, everyone by now will be aware of the grey shaded movie being released on the 13th February. The day before Valentine’s Day. That’s right, it’s another year where we all go 50 shades of absolutely mad about bondage – and don’t forget the jiggle balls or lip balm, come to that.

bettie page spanked and bondage in greyWith so much emphasis on being kinky and increasing expectation for adults across the world to be tied up and spanked this Valentine’s Day, it’s easy to feel just a little bit under pressure to perform. This should be the most romantic day of the year, traditionally, and pressure isn’t sexy. There’s really no need to feel guilty if you’re not a kinky type. The world may be Grey-obsessed but as long as your attention is on the one or ones you love that’s all that really matters. After all, Valentine’s Day is simply one day where we celebrate being able to publicly show what we should be feeling throughout the year.

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The Breaking of K (Wearing of the CB-6000 Male Chastity Device Journal from slave penny)

To dream of the unobtainable invariably leads to torment and unrequited desire. After last night’s conversation I found myself imagining what it must be like to have sex with the most stunningly beautiful, unattainable, deliciously cruel Goddess and Bitch. I imagined Her naked body close to me, Her erect nipples betraying Her arousal, the heat radiating from Her sex and through that heat I could feel the moistness inviting my eventual penetration. Of course this was all in my imagination, but I was imagining something I’d never dared with any of my previous Femdom owners. Having said that, Mistress Cara is special, probably my last and certainly the most deserving and superior Mistress I have ever served. Perhaps even more reason not to imagine the impossible. Not only did I imagine it but I did so when my cock was restrained preventing not only sexual release but even a proper erection.

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Competition: Win a Black Leather Harness & Fun Factory Tiger Stub with Kinky Monkey

I’ve been a fan of Kinky Monkey ever since I met them in person at the ETO Show last year. Their handmade leather goods are beautiful and brilliant quality, and adorn not only fans of light bedroom bondage but BDSM scene mainstays like Dom Strap On. Now Kinky Monkey are giving you the chance to own their flagship product, the black leather strap on harness, absolutely free – as well as a gorgeous dildo to slip inside.

Both the Kinky Monkey Black Leather Harness and the Fun Factory Tiger Stub Dildo have been given the full review treatment here at Cara Sutra recently, and they’re both solid, reliable products which I can give my full recommendation to. But don’t worry, you’re not winning my harness and dildo – Kinky Monkey have another strap on harness and brand new Fun Factory Tiger Stub to send to the lucky winner.

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Sex news: Segzi caters to smut fans with new erotic books shop

I love erotic fiction. There’s nothing better than being so hooked on a sizzling hot novel that you just can’t put it down until you’ve relished every deliciously suggestive adjective and every carefully crafted sensual phrase. Sadly, not every erotic novel or sexy short story is as skilfully written as the favourites in my library. Some are downright shocking, for all the wrong reasons. I know; I’ve been subjected to some terrible ‘erotica’ in my time.

There’s two problems I have when it comes to erotic fiction: I have a very busy life so I don’t get much chance to read for long periods, and then there’s the matter of knowing where to find this often elusive high calibre of sexy writing. I don’t want to waste precious reading/masturbation time trawling through hundreds of pages on Amazon, only to be faced with thousands of authors and their offerings without any real idea whether they’re totally dire or the next Anne Rice.

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Pre-event: Smut in the City Luton March 2015

New year means new events – and the first exciting meet up this year is courtesy of Smut UK. I was delighted to be able to attend two Smut UK events last year; Smut by the Sea in Scarborough and Smut in the City in Manchester. Both events were professionally organised, well attended occasions and I thoroughly enjoyed my visits.

So what’s happening and when? Well the first sexy event of the year is Smut in the City: Luton. It’s organised by the Smut UK team of course, and this particular event is sponsored by House of Erotica.

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Sex news: Official Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toys launches new deluxe Red Room Bondage Collection

The Fifty Shades of Grey film, based on the best selling trilogy of books by EL James, will be in theatres (cinemas) from Valentine’s Day next month. I’ll be going to see it along with probably most of the western world (though not at the same time and definitely not at the same cinema). The film fifty shades of grey lowest price erotic books at Lovehoney with offersstars Jamie Dornan As Christian Grey and Dakota Johnson as Anastasia Steele, the protagonists who find themselves caught in a kinky love affair in the books. As Fifty Shades of Grey undoubtedly (and maybe inexplicably) helped to bridge the worlds of vanilla and kink, it will be genuinely interesting to see the effect a film version will have on the world view of BDSM or at least a bit of light bedroom bondage.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: On Her Back

Why did you start a sex blog or reviewing sex toys?

I’m a sex+ person and I was trying to reclaim my sexuality after a traumatizing event. I wanted to learn more about my body and sex toy reviewing has put me and my body through so many good–and some bad–experiences. I’m grateful for all of them. I’m becoming a pro at me ; )

What’s your favourite thing about blogging?

The writing process! I have notes plastered all around my room. I’m an English major and future author and sex+ woman, I needed something regular to write about.

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Can I really have an orgasm in my sleep?

Upon properly waking up I don’t feel the muscle tension that usually comes post-orgasm. The orgasm I had in my dreams isn’t that lightning bolt zing from clit to throat. It’s more of a rippling wave from top to toe, a gentle lapping of pleasure which unfurls from… where, I’m once again not sure. The pit of my stomach, my clit, my mind. All I know is that when I’m awake the feeling is ebbing away but it might just be the fading of a dream, not a real orgasm.

One of my exes could orgasm without touching herself. Whether on the bus or just before going to sleep at night. Wherever she was she could just think about it and make herself have an orgasm. What an enviable skill. But her orgasms were always when she was fully awake, never when asleep.