The ETO Awards 2014 nominations are open! Who are your winners?

Well it’s ETO Awards Season again and the nominations are open for the ETO Awards 2014. You can click to go straight to the nominations form here. Just enter who you think deserves a shot at the award in each category. I would of course love your votes for Best Erotic Journalist. Thanks so much!

I am keeping my nominations a closely guarded secret but I have nominated those I feel deserve recognition for their tireless hard work in the adult industry.

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Wicked Wednesday: 3 wishes for the taking

The one serious wish I would make for myself, is that I would be a confident person. Not to be self conscious or have any insecurities. Not to an arrogant point, of course. But definitely confident. I can be assertive, I can face challenges head on, I can stride into a room and bluff it out that I am confident. But as for what’s going on inside… I don’t let many people see that. The weak, self-doubting, insecure side. Oh dear, that’s not very fun either.

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Eroticon 2014: Facing the challenge of public speaking

I’m worried about hearing the right words when people ask questions. That’s quite before the fact that I just don’t like my voice. Writing seems to comfortable, compared; when you’re reading words you can imagine the perfect pitch and tone of voice. Never any hesitation or stuttering, no breaking voice, no awkward pauses. No scrabbling around in the corners of your mind for the right way to say this out loud.

Kev 'Mitnik' Blisse erotic author spotlight series at Cara Sutra

Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Kev ‘Mitnik’ Blisse

She squirmed at this deliciously naughty thought and ran a finger over her lips, teasing the luscious flesh with the tip of her index finger. She dreamed of delicate sensual kisses full of desire and lust. She snaked out her tongue, flicking against the teasing digit as her mind pictured a probing tongue insistent on claiming its prize as it forced its way past her own and filled her mouth.


Report: The Fantasy by Cara Sutra bondage kit launch party

My dress just couldn’t hold up to my Dominance (read: months of cakes) and in launching myself over the bed for an extra powerful pose, it ripped from the backseam of the wiggle dress right up the back to somewhere revealingly high around my bottom. Luckily I had on my fishnet backseam tights; somewhat unluckily I had chosen to only wear the tiniest black thong.


Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Violet Blue

Violet Blue is an award-winning author and editor, CNET reporter, CBSi/ZDNet blogger and columnist, a high-profile tech personality and one of Wired’s Faces of Innovation. She is regarded as the foremost expert in the field of sex and technology, a sex-positive mainstream media pundit (MacLife, CNN, “The Oprah Winfrey Show”) and is interviewed, quoted and featured in outlets ranging from ABC News to the Wall Street Journal.