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Why Love Curiosity will become your new sex toys shopping addiction

Sex toy shopping websites. You’ve seen them, you’ve visited them, and you probably have your favourites bookmarked. I’m here to tell you about a serious new player to town which puts those regular and boring shops in the shade: Love Curiosity.

What makes Love Curiosity so different? Instead of page after page of pink jelly rabbit vibrators, pocket pussies and more lubricant than a particularly perverted wrestling competition, Love Curiosity offer you two major differences;

1. A fresh feeling, vibrant, easy to navigate website which looks and feels unique amongst sex toy shopping websites

2. Hand-picked, high quality products specially selected to appeal to the most discerning customers

Love Curiosity focus on only selling sex toys and bedroom accessories from trusted and reputable suppliers.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Jeanette Lebo

Having worked in the film and fashion industries for over two decades, Jeanette Lebo is no stranger to the sexual exploits that accompany ambition and fame. Jeanette’s passion for writing and love of erotica combined with her life experience led her to pen her first erotic novel, Off Limits: a story about a successful film Production Director who falls hopelessly in love with a younger guy who is totally off-limits.
Jeanette’s second novel, Chandra, is based on one of the naughtier characters in Off Limits, and is scheduled for release in early 2016 . . . stay tuned.

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The Casual Naughty Dater

People have different habits when it comes down to dating. Some look for a long-term life partner whilst others are just after a quick fling. That is because we are all individuals with needs which can vary from simple physical desires to more complex emotional ones. Most of the time our needs, wants and lusts all combine together into our personalities, determining what we are looking for when going out on that next date.

Looking for love

Who doesn’t want to be loved? Since the dawn of times, human beings have had the need for affection. The feeling of being adored by someone else makes us feel like a better person, and being able to reciprocate this emotion towards another person adds a sense of balance to our lives, as though it is something that is forever meant to be. The truth is that a lot of us often get confused between loving someone and being infatuated by someone. Some of us understand love to be a caring sensation, like the one we feel towards our parents who have looked after us our whole lives; whilst for others, love is more of an obsession; often linked to our emotional balance. Love is a very complex phenomenon and some believe it is what defines us as human beings.

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Classifying vaginal piercings as FGM is an unacceptable mutilation of women’s freedom

All my research beforehand had stated that this would be the case; a clit hood piercing can increase the sexual pleasure of a woman through either masturbation with or without sex toys or during sex with a partner. Throughout my years with a clit hood piercing the only slight issue I’ve had is the rattling of the metal if I use a bullet vibrator to stimulate my clitoris during masturbation. Everything else is sheer pleasure. There’s an illicit thrill attached to having my clit bar or ring slightly tugged or teased by a lover’s fingertips or tongue, or the motion of the ball-end against my clit during the thrusts of sexual intercourse. Knowing it’s there throughout the day, underneath my clothes, makes me feel sexy. Makes me feel more confident and attractive.


Fetish Friday: The Naked Latex Maids – chaste male slave fantasy files #2

The room was clearly set for a party. A table full of nibbles and canapies, mini plates, glasses and decorations. Music was also playing but as yet no guests. I stood with a tray full of filled champagne flutes awaiting the arrival of the revellers . My tray was the fourth in a line of four trays each bearing similar flutes.

The stiff collar around my neck prevented me from turning my head beyond the trays themselves and I was unable to identify my fellow subordinates. There was however no reason to do so. Each wall in the chamber consisted almost virtually of mirrors. I looked forward to see 4 absolutely identical naked females holding trays. They were not females of course. They were male slaves and I was one of them. Every centimetre of my body was encased in latex depicting an idiotic almost stereotypical large breasted blonde. Our latex faces were emotionless with ridiculously thick red lips and we each wore the same blonde wig.


Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Miss Ruby Reviews

Six months ago, I’d have laughed if you suggested that I’d soon be running a sex toy review blog. I’m a very private person, and I don’t usually talk about my sex life with my own friends, let alone the public.

The start of Miss Ruby Reviews was all very spontaneous. A few months before I started my blog,, I watched a mini-series documentary called Frisky Business. This documentary followed the comings and goings of the staff at Lovehoney, one of the larger online sex toy stores in the UK. I loved the series so much because, for the first time, I heard people talking about sex toys in a frank and honest way. This sparked my initial interest in becoming more involved in the industry. A few months later, after a particularly expensive sex-toy shopping splurge, my partner suggested that, if I was going to spend all that money, I may as well do something creative with my purchases. I took one hour to think about it then set out to buy a domain name. That shopping splurge gave me material for the first couple of weeks of my blog.


The Consensual Slut Project: Why I am proud to be a ‘slut’

I am proud to be a slut. That isn’t the same as saying I recognise that I am a woman of loose morals and I don’t care. What I mean is that I have an affinity with the phrase itself and its place and meaning in my life.

I do not want to be called a slut by just anybody. I will not tolerate having the word “slut” spat at me as an insult, by those who attempt to shame a woman for either her sexual choices or by assigning incorrect moral values to her with incorrect, outdated terminology. That’s not sex positive. That’s not pleasant. That’s not right.

How can the word “slut” be so good, yet so bad? This happens in the English language all the time, and not just to words with a sexual connotation. Words like “gay” and “queer” have undergone evolution to becoming universally accepted as positive terms, while schoolkids have spent the past few decades confusing parents with the opposite to traditional definitions of “wicked”, “bad”, “sick” and more. Words which are still in the infancy of their evolution towards something sex positive are of course a sensitive issue for the deemed-to-be-relevant subjects of those words or labels in society. This might explain the intense actions and debate of those who rail against terms such as “slut” or “whore” – but I don’t believe it justifies negative attitudes or behaviour towards those who welcome a new understanding and ownership of such words.

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Sex Toy Review Round Up: Hedovibes #83

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Fetish Friday: Decadence and Delicious Debauchery – chaste male slave fantasy files #1

Apart from the periodic supervised cleaning of my genitals and the device, my cock was permanently locked in its plastic prison. My cock had one principal purpose and that was its arousal which was the bases by which my worship and obedience was achieved and maintained. Denial was a very certain means of achieving that. Having said that, about 5 years earlier when her security measures were in their infancy, two slaves did manage to wank, achieve sexual release and escape. Within three weeks however, both had returned begging to be re-caged and re-owned by her. They were taken back by her and severely, very severely, punished as an example to us all.

Her security measures are now far more robust and such “slip ups” virtually impossible. In any case, I am certain we all know that like the two previous escapees we would beg to return. To many we lived a living hell, but she is a true Goddess and this is what we are now fully conditioned to be.

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Event Report: Erotica fans swarm The Hat Factory for Smut Luton, March 2015

Saturday 7 March 2015. The day began terrifyingly early, as I was exhibiting my wares on a stall at The Hat Factory, Luton. Why? Because it was time for Smut in the City, of course.

You may have heard me talk about Smut UK in various articles and on social media. I really must collate the wonder of Smut UK in one main info post at some point. Smut UK comprises of erotic authors and editors Kev and Victoria Blisse, as well as best seling author Lucy Felthouse. Smut UK run a variety of both online and ‘real life’ events, such as Blissemas, Smut by the Sea and Smut in the City.


Event Report: Over 300 attendees enjoy Erotic World Book Day party celebrations

Erotic World Book Day was 5 March and as part of the celebrations there was an unashamedly spectacular party on Facebook. From 7pm UK time until well past midnight, every hour saw a new host share a wealth of tasty entertainment for the party attendees to enjoy.

Were you in attendance? Were you one of the 325 people who came to our party? You really should have been there. With shared excerpts from some of the top names in the world of erotic fiction, cyber cocktails, sexy chat, best-dressed competitions and over £1,500 of prizes to win, this really was an unmissable adult event.

Erotic World Book Day originator Emily Dubberley declared the party officially open at 7pm with an overview of the night’s festivities and the charity fundraising reasons behind the celebrations. We hoped to raise a substantial amount for sexual health and well-being charity Brook. As well as regular calls through the night for party folk to donate generously, either through the website link or text, there would be the official launch of our Erotic World Book Day charity anthology, An Intimate Education. 100% of the profit from sales of this erotic e-book would be (and still is being) donated to Brook.


EWBD competitions: Last call to win over £1500 of Erotic World Book Day prizes

The Erotic World Book Day Competitions

Win a £170 bundle of sex toys from Vibrator Kingdom

Win the entire Lakeland Witches trilogy by KD Grace

Win the Vibease vibrator worth £65

Win a signed copy of Spring in My Step (Morris Dancing erotica) by Sallyann Rogers

Win 1 of 4 £30+ erotic book bundles from Black Lace Books

Win a Pulse II Duo from Pleasure Pulse worth £89

Win a LELO Ora 2 in Deep Rose from Nice n Naughty worth £118.99

Win 1 of 10 erotic e-books by Lily Harlem

Win a signed copy of APPETITES: Tales of Lesbian Lust, and a copy of Flappers, Jazz and Valentino by Jill Boyd

Win 1 of 5 Tiffany Reisz Original Sinners novels courtesy of Mills & Boon

Win 2 Smut Scarborough tickets

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Sex Toy Review Round Up: Hedovibes #82

Win a £75 Kinky Monkey sex toys voucher from Cara Sutra (3/31)
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Giveaway: Let’s Get Spunked (4/1)
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3 Stories of Submission from Alison Tyler (4/4)
Win a Tantus Flurry & Cush When @PeepsScoop Reaches 500 Twitter Followers
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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Ava Manello

I step out of my boxers, making my way closer to the shower. The cold air from the door opening startles Christy, but when she sees it’s me she relaxes again. The smile that I love spreads over her lips, lighting up her face as she beckons me in with an outstretched finger. I don’t hesitate, needing to be with her.

She draws me in until we’re both under the blast of hot water. Fuck! How the hell can she stand it this hot? She’s a self-confessed shower tart. She’d be happy to spend all day under the warm stream if I’d let her.

Christy moves for the shower gel, turning me around to lather my back. The slow, sensual stroke of her hands feels so good. The tension starts to leave my shoulders and body.

I turn and lean in to gently nip at her neck, while her hands move behind me to massage my ass. She let’s out that little moan that gets me every time. My erection pushes itself into her stomach, wanting in on the action. Laughing quietly she moves a hand around to my front, taking a firm hold of my cock. Shit, that feels so good. She squeezes lightly, massaging up and down my length. Her soap covered hands so soft and slick against me.


50 Shades Better: Real Stories of Submission & Bondage from Alison Tyler

Erotic author Alison Tyler has written and edited some of the hottest BDSM novels and anthologies around. Her sultry short stories appear in more than 100 anthologies, and she is a prolific editor of bestselling erotic anthologies like Twisted, Bound for Trouble, and The Big Book of Bondage. Alison was writing bondage and submission tales long before the words 50 Shades of Grey were even dreamed, before Jamie and Dakota enjoyed Red Room spankings on cinema screens around the world.

Alison Tyler’s bondage themed novels, Dark Secret Love, The Delicious Torment and Wrapped Around Your Finger offer the reader an insight into what really happens in a BDSM lifestyle. Our fascinating protagonist, Samantha, is a submissive with intellect and attitude in equal measure. Her quest for the perfect Dom and her kinky, erotic and often romantic adventures along the way keep the reader engrossed right to the very last word on the last page – and desperate for more.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Charlie in the Pool

Hi, I’m Charlie and I blog over at Charlie in the Pool.

When I first started out my blog was more of a dating blog but over time it has morphed into some completely different. Now it’s a mixture of sexual anecdotes, my sexual fantasies, sex toy reviews, erotic fiction and quite a few pictures of my boobs.

What’s your blog name/online handle and how did you come up with it?

I needed a suitable pseudonym for setting up my blog and decided on the name Charlie because that was my cats name and I’ve always liked it. The “In The Pool” comes from the fact I live in Liverpool, which is sometimes called The Pool by locals.