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Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: Hedovibes #57

Contests, Competitions and Giveaways
Get Tied Up in Sportsheets’ Bonanza BDSM Giveaway! -by A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind (ends 9/5)
Geisha Balls Giveaway -by Krissy Novacaine (ends 9/6)
Kiss Me- There Inspired Swag -by Karen Blue (ends 9/8)
Pandora Boxed Set Giveaway -by Karen Blue (ends 9/10)
Bound for Submission Giveaway -by Ali’s Addiction (ends 9/17)
Win a strong and rumbly We-Vibe Touch! -by dizzygirl (ends 9/22)
Twitter Giveaway: Handcuffs when @BeckandHerKinks reaches 2000 followers -by BeckAndHerKinks
SGP’s Mega Social Media Giveaway -by Slutty Girl Problems

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Happy 8th Birthday, Uber Kinky!

If you’re looking for some truly remarkable, alternative and kinky sex toys to add to your bondage or fetish gear collection, Uber Kinky is the place to go.

See you on the 8th for another amazing and unmissable special offer! I can’t give away too much about what’s coming up the rest of the month, but I will just say the words Doxy, Electrastim and CAKE and just leave that there…


Competition: Win a fab free bundle of Astroglide silicone lubricants

Yesterday I reviewed these two exciting products from Astroglide, the Astroglide Diamond Silicone Gel and the Astroglide X Premium SIlicone Lube and now YOU can win them for your very own sex lubes collection!

Ok just so we’re clear here – not MY bottles of lube, your very own fresh and new bottles for keeps.

It’s easy to enter and get your chance to win – in fact you can tweet multiple times for extra entries. Come back every day and tweet again to get another chance!


Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Tanith Davenport

Tanith Davenport began writing erotica at the age of 27 by way of the Romantic Novelists’ Association New Writers’ Scheme. Her debut novel “The Hand He Dealt” was released by Total-e-Bound in June 2011 and was shortlisted for the Joan Hessayon Award for 2012.

Tanith has had short stories published by Naughty Nights Press and House of Erotica. She loves to travel and dreams of one day taking a driving tour of the United States, preferably in a classic 1950s pink Cadillac Eldorado.

Tanith’s idea of heaven is an Indian head massage with a Mojito at her side.

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10 ways to take good care of your latex clothing collection

If you want your latex clothing to remain a shiny specimen of excellence for a more enjoyable experience in the bedroom then take heed of the few simple but essential rules that follow.

Store your latex clothing in a cool, dark place away from direct sunlight; ultra-violet sunlight is known to break down latex
Wash by hand with mild soapy water within eight hours of use. Your body sweat contains body oils that can deteriorate the latex

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Penny for Your (Dirty) Thoughts

The main goal of my blog and work is to normalize sex, sex toys, and nudity through open discussion, creativity, and sex positivity. My blog is ranked highly on sex blog lists like the Top Sex Bloggers of 2013, my writing has appeared on sites like, and I’m known in the sex toy world as a photography guru. I’ve attended blogger conferences like CatalystCon andEroticonUSA, and I love networking with sex positive people.

I identify as a feminist, pan-sexual slut, and I live in weird and fabulous Austin, Texas with my long term partner Jake and our adorable kitty. I love reading and learning, French press coffee, travelling, devouring al pastor tacos, (topless) sunbathing, knee high socks, gluten free pizza, pinups, cats, Bloody Marys, and Buffy the Vampire Slayer.


Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: Hedovibes #56

Win a $50 gift card to Good Vibrations when I reach 1000 twitter followers -by Property Of Potter
1000 Follower Giveaway – Tantus Maverick and Little Secrets Spoon -by dizzygirl
Win 1 of 7 Minx Vibrators-Giveaway/YouTube Challenge -by Slutty Girl Problems (ends 8/31)
Booty Parlor’s Sexy Selfie Giveaway -by Slutty Girl Problems (ends 8/31)
Win 3 2-oz Bottles of SPUNK Lube -by Slutty Girl Problems (ends 8/31)
Win Stories of O Orgasmic Erotica edited by Alex Algren -by Cara Sutra (ends 9/1)


Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Erzabet Bishop

Erzabet Bishop has been crafting stories since she could pound keys on her parents’ old typewriter. She has only just learned that it is a whole lot more fun writing naughty books. She is a contributing author to the Silk Words website with her Fetish Fair choose your own romantic adventure stories, Elemental Passions, Potnia, A Christmas To Remember, Taboo II, Club Rook: The Series, Sweat, Bossy, When the Clock Strikes Thirteen, Unbound Box, Milk & Cookies & Handcuffs, Holidays in Hell, Corset Magazine: Sex Around the World Issue and Man vs. Machine: The Sex Toy Issue, Smut by the Sea Volume 2, Hell Whore Volume 2, Can’t Get Enough (upcoming, Cleis), Slave Girls, The Big Book of Submission (upcoming Cleis), Hungry for More (upcoming Cleis), Gratis II, Anything She Wants, Dirty Little Numbers, Kink-E magazine, Eternal Haunted Summer, Coming Together: Girl on Girl, Shifters and Coming Together: Hungry for Love among others. She is the author of Lipstick (upcoming), Dinner Date, Tethered, Sigil Fire (coming from Ylva in June 2014), The Erotic Pagans Series: Beltane Fires, Samhain Shadows and Yuletide Temptation. She lives in Texas with her husband, furry children and can often be found lurking in local bookstores. She loves to bake, make naughty crochet projects and watch monster movies. When she isn’t writing, she loves to review music and books.


Are you guilty of slut-shaming sex doll lovers?

Yes, I mean those ticky-tacky-plastic-macky inflatable sex dolls which are often the punchline to jokes in pop culture. From Fawlty Towers to Fools and Horses, we’ve spent the last few decades taking a pop (sorry) at inflatable sex dolls and by proxy, the users of them. Who still uses inflatable or otherwise low priced sex dolls? Anyone? It’s an interesting question, especially for me as I work with sex toys and adult products on a daily basis. Part of the reason for this site is to provide honest feedback and reviews for sex toys of all kinds. I have a man on hand who is able to use and give feedback on male sex toys and masturbators, as well as a male slave who enjoys prostate massagers and bondage sex toys. When talking about which products I think I should review next, I realised the one gap in my library and collection – sex dolls.


Why Disney prince penis offends me

Every so often a contact sends me some Disney porn Tumblr link, or a sexed up Disney scene on Twitter or by email. There doesn’t seem to be a clear distinction between vanilla and fetish; from the Beast fucking Belle with his great furry wolf type penis to Snow White being chained up in a dungeon and lesbian fucked by her Stepmother the Evil Queen. Gang banged by the 7 Dwarves. Jasmine fucked in chains by Jafar. The Little Mermaid losing her shells. Tinkerbell and her pin-up ass.


Cara Sutra’s Ice Bucket Challenge

My first response was no. damn. way. I then had a think over it and couldn’t really come up with any reason not to get involved, especially as most of the ABS Holdings team were a good sport and had a bucket of iced water dumped over their head. The funds raised from donations are going to ALS (the US awareness association for Motor Neurone Disease) and Macmillan who help those with cancer. In particular I have a fondness for supporting the Macmillan nurses, some of whom helped not only my grandmother many years ago but also my partner’s father in his last few weeks last year.

So here we go!


Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Katie Laid Bare

The purpose of Katie Laid Bare to give my readers and followers, an insight into my world and the things that are important to me. I intend to be open and frank about the topics I choose to write about. Some of my views may be controversial, some funny, and some, I hope, thought provoking. Ultimately, it’s really just a random collection of musings on the subjects of sex, life, the universe and everything; but mostly sex.


Having a baby ruined my vagina!

Even though I breastfed both my babies, still do my pelvic floor muscles when I remember and have a happy sex life and regular orgasms, my vagina is not the same as it was before I had kids. Just like my tummy isn’t concave and the skin on my belly and thighs isn’t clear and stretch-mark free. It takes some time to come to terms with your new post-baby body, and body acceptance after a baby is a huge issue for some (perhaps most) women. I certainly struggled with it and still do. I wouldn’t go back and decide not to have my kids though, and although that’s easy to say now when I can look at my children and feel love for them, the knowledge that having babies could and probably would change my body didn’t stop me having them.


Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Eliot Waistlin

“Okay, get ready, baby,” he said, and she released him and leaned back. He held his cock, grunted a few times and then started pissing. He pissed for a moment on her face and she gasped, and then he pissed on her tits, spraying her all over. The piss splashed all around her, collecting in puddles in the bottom of the pool. I didn’t want to guess how many beers he’d had, but he didn’t stop pissing for a long time.

Natalia seemed to love it. I didn’t know how much of that was her desire to be a good porn performer, or if she was actually getting some kind of sexual thrill from having a stranger piss all over her, but the look on her face was blissful. When his stream weakened, she got up close, holding her mouth open just below his cock so his final dribbles ran right onto her tongue.


Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: Hedovibes #55

Contests, Competitions and Giveaways
Can’t Get Enough Giveaway -by Ali’s Addiction (ends 8/21)
Found in Us ebook -by Karen Blue (ends 8/25)
A Princess Bound & Lustfinger Vibrator -by Karen Blue (ends 8/28)
$10.00 Amazon Gift Card & eCopy of Prymal Lust -by Karen Blue (ends 8/29)
Win a £100 voucher to spend at Adored -by Cara Sutra (ends 8/31)
Giveaway: Good Vibes Easy Glider -by KinkyMom (ends 8/31)


Sex basics: 6 steps to help you prepare for the best sex of your life

Don’t fall prey to a disorganised sex life – make sure you’re organised and always be prepared for sex. It’s easy enough to stock up with batteries, condoms and lube in the bedside drawer, and you need to make sure you recharge those rechargeable vibrators if they’re running low. Have a selection of sex toys by the bed so that you can swap to a more suitable one in the heat of the moment if the mood takes you.

It’s also a great idea to keep a pack of wet wipes, some tissue and even an old towel or two around for spills and sex messes. Hey, we all know they happen – let’s not be shy here.


Win the brand new Stories of O: Orgasmic Erotica e-book (plus: how to get a free erotic paperback)

Warm up with Saskia Walker’s steamy “Communal,” a story about a college girl who seduces other students in shower stalls. Next, a couple discovers a devious use for their spatula while cooking breakfast in Kristina Wright’s “(S)pan(k)cakes.” In A. D. R. Forte’s “Endymion,” two models with statuesque bodies succumb to their mutual lust inside an artist’s studio. A woman uses Kegel exercises to send her lover into sexual nirvana in Donna George Storey’s “The Big O.” In “Not Without Permission” by Sinclair Sexsmith, a dom considers allowing her submissive to orgasm, but not before she’s had some fun with her strap-on first. And finally, in Thomas Roche’s “Butterfly’s Kiss,” an inexperienced dom visits an underground sex club and discovers a new bag of tricks.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Kinky Biker Mom

Hello, I am Kinky Biker Mom I am a ‘sex blogger’ I write about my own experiences and make up some stories for my erotica but mostly I write about the adventures of biker hubby and I. I am forty something and have been with my partner since I was 14 years old. We have grown together and had many adventures together. I began to do my blog 1 year ago in July and will also celebrate my birthday. My daughter is a sex blogger and she is the one that got me started with my blog and she helps keep me updated and does the maintenance on my blog. Biker hubby and I enjoy riding motor cycles and spending time together, we do enjoy a dom/sub relationship, however we added our own twist to it because we switch roles now-an-then. I am mostly dominate in the relationship but enjoy turning over the reigns to biker hubby so that he can take charge.