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Is a non-porous, real feel sex toy material too much to ask?

There are sex toys made to stimulate the vagina and clitoris and anal areas which are made from non-porous materials but masturbators seem to be the last hurdle for 100% body safe material manufacture in the industry. Unlike penetrating sex toys which enter the vagina and butt, or those used on external erogenous zones like the clitoris and nipples, masturbators need to feel cushioning and enveloping to something penetrating *it*.

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Woman On Top

The cultural tsunami that is 50 Shades may be partly responsible for the idea that all BDSM is about women’s longing for the ultimate Billionaire Bastard to tie them up and do terrible things to them but that trope’s been a bit of a problem for a while. In my own younger days, and early explorations of the fetish scene, kink was all about ‘Miss Whiplash’ and clubs were called things like Maitresse, Madame Venus and Domina.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: PM Thomas

The Woman took him on that offer, she slipped off her panties, showing off her perfect neatly trimmed bush.
The Boy admired her sublime womanly magnificence with an infatuated eye. “Of all the pussies I’ve seen, yours ranks as number one. It looks warm and inviting. And, best of all, the carpets perfectly match the drapes, a plus in my books.”

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Sexhibition 2015 – The Cara Sutra Report

Sexhibition 2015 was a memorable experience, for various reasons. The erotic event of the year took place at Event City Manchester, which is right by the Trafford Centre, and promised to bring together adult industry exhibitors, porn stars and other adult entertainers in one glamorous, spectacular event.

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What BlogSpot at the ETO Show teaches us about sex bloggers

Having entered the industry as a sex blogger and with blogging and sex toy reviews still at the core of my own online presence, I know that there is a real underlying feeling of inferiority from the blogging sector. That’s why I wanted to help create a purposeful, helpful and welcoming space specifically for our adult industry writers at this year’s ETO Show.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Beth D. Carter

Braden shut her up by kissing her. One minute she was raving like a lunatic and the next moment he claimed her mouth with his. At first, she didn’t respond as surprise rippled through her. She simply took in the fact that her stoic, taciturn cowboy was, in fact, kissing her. She wrapped her arms around his neck and opened her mouth, letting her tongue meet the seam of his lips. He opened immediately and swirled their tongues together. It was different from Leo’s kiss but no less sensual. Her fear melted into desire and, when he pulled back to stare at her with his blazing blue orbs, her fear evaporated.


A guide to buying your first sex toy – regardless of sexuality, gender or relationship status

Buying your first sex toy, whether alone or as part of a couple, is a very exciting experience. You’re about to embark on a new adventure in your sexual life and the chance to try something new is deliciously alluring. The chance to ignite your orgasms by a new masturbation method or discover higher levels of satisfaction with a lover comes rarely in our adult lives. Embrace this thrilling opportunity and get ready for more fulfilling sexual pleasure.

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The history of sex toys – and what the future may hold

It may surprise you to learn that products designed for sexual intimacy were popular well before Sex and the City or Fifty Shades of Grey. In fact, the global phenomenon that is today’s sex toys actually originated in the civilisations of ancient history. It is fascinating to discover just how sex toys have developed through the centuries, from primitive and humble beginnings to the technological wonders of a sexually progressive 21st century.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Lisabet Sarai

“Answer me, slut!” With his free hand he gives a vicious twist to my right nipple. It’s still swollen and tender from the clamps he made me wear through dinner. A bolt of pain arcs from the abused nub down to my engorged clit, transmuting to electric pleasure along the way.
“Ow! Oh…!” He slides a finger along the wet slit between my splayed thighs, then snatches it away.

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Choosing The Best Tools for Spanking, Corporal Punishment & Pain Fetish

So you want to get hitty with it? Has Fifty Shades of Grey got you all fired up for a bit of spanking action? Or do you hate absolutely everything 50 Shades and want to ‘do it properly’?
There are loads of different spanking tools out there that you can use for anything from a sensual bit of power play in the bedroom with your lover all the way up to a strict disciplinary at your local dungeon or fetish club.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: The Big Gay Review

So the blog is called The Big Gay Review and I really wish there was a ‘hilarious’ anecdote to go with why I called the blog that – but the reality is, I thought it would be funny. I was thinking about things like ‘My Big Fat Greek Wedding’ and basically thought ‘Let’s just call it what it is – it’s a review blog written by a big gay!’. And that’s honest to the dildo gods the reason behind the name.

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Pride Brighton 2015: The parade, the festival and the bomb scare

Our driver drove my partner Sable and I down to the hotel early Thursday evening. Our hotel, The Mercure, is a beautiful Victorian property overlooking the sea. We had an upgraded, seaview room and once we arrived we settled in immediately. It was late after the long drive from Lincolnshire to the south coast so after a much-needed shared bottle of wine from room service we slept soundly.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Charlotte Howard

“What the hell, Max?” she exclaimed, but it wasn’t because of his nudity. She’d seen him naked more times than any other woman.
He stepped into a pair of tight boxer shorts and turned around, preparing himself for the grief he had been hoping to avoid. “What have I done now?” he asked, walking towards the wardrobe and pulling out a pair of dark, shredded jeans.

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Frolicka: Your One Stop Sexuality Magazine & Sex Toys Shop

Shopping for sex toys on the high street isn’t as easy for everybody. What if you’re out shopping with your kids, or dad, or mother-in-law? What if that sex shop is right by where you work? What if you don’t want to head home, past the curtain-twitching neighbours, with a sex shop branded bag overflowing with anal beads, vibrating butt plugs and rabbit vibrators?
Here’s the good news: you don’t have to.