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Sex, lies, videotape and being a decent person

Now this is totally my own opinion here, but surely being a decent person dictates that you don’t show someone’s sexy goodies off to all and sundry, or even one other person, if you haven’t got explicit permission, excuse the pun. If you don’t have consent to share said pictures, video, whatever type of media it is – then don’t. It doesn’t even just apply to sexy selfies, sex tapes and naked photos – this is usual courteous practice when it comes to sharing an image that someone has taken which you’ve found on the internet. Could be of anything. A kitten, a flower, a bridge, a vibrator. Don’t just take it and share it on your blog – ask permission first. Or at least make sure consent to share/use it is apparent by it being labelled under Creative Commons licence. Same with snippets and excerpts of someone’s writing.

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The best sex blogs round up: Elust #62 (I’m ‘Readers Choice’ from Sex Bytes!)

Thanks to the readers of Sex Bytes for choosing my ‘sex dolls slut shaming’ article as the Reader’s Choice for this edition of ELust. I am so incredibly delighted, proud – and also relieved that this article made it into this edition. Coincidentally, I had planned on submitting this very article for this ELust edition but sadly I missed the deadline, after being distracted with other matters. Darn work! Thanks for voting it and make sure you check out not only the sex dolls feature but also the other wonderful articles from sex bloggers across the globe collated for you in one handy spot.

By the way, if you’re interested in what else you can do with a sex doll, check out my top alternative uses for a blow up sex doll article here. You know you want to.

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Sex Toy Review Round Up: Hedovibes #59

Win the Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica -by Cara Sutra (ends 9/29)
Share to Win Competition: WIN £50 to spend at Sh! -by Cara Sutra (ends 9/30)
$20 SheVibe Gift Card -by BeckAndHerKinks (ends 10/3)
The Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica -by Karen Blue (ends 10/3)
Twitter Giveaway: Handcuffs when @BeckandHerKinks reaches 2000 followers -by BeckAndHerKinks
SGP’s Mega Social Media Giveaway -by Slutty Girl Problems
1000 Follower Giveaway – Tantus Maverick and Little Secrets Spoon -by dizzygirl

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How does a woman give a man anal sexual pleasure?

Give additional pleasure while experimenting with his anal region. This is quite tricky, as it’s natural to want to see what you’re doing. Extra and familiar pleasure helps him relax and allows you to explore his ass with your fingers if you’re giving him a fluid, well lubricated hand job at the same time, paying attention to his testicles as well as his shaft and penis tip, of course. In later sessions you might feel confident enough to kiss and suck his penis, giving a languid and thoroughly stimulating blow job while you probe his anal area slowly.
When giving anal pleasure to a man, you would do well to be aware of a little something called the prostate. A little walnut shaped something, to be precise. This gland is located fairly deep inside the anal canal, on the upper wall if the man is laying face up. You should be able to just about stimulate it with a fingertip or two but it takes practice – and again, more lube. Use a beckoning motion with your finger and watch him squirm in pleasure. You’re right to keep your fingernails short! This gland is the epicentre of a man’s anal pleasure. When correctly stimulated, the prostate can lead to full body orgasms like your man has never before experienced. For more on this subject and a great deal of in-depth, expert knowledge, I highly recommend Charlie Glickman’s The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure (here at Amazon.com). It’s a must-read for everything prostate and male anal pleasure. You can read guest reviews of this book written for Cara Sutra here and here.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Vanessa Clark

I hurried away from the door before they’d realise I had been there the whole time. I went to the nearest toilet, pulled down my drawers, and feverishly masturbated my pussy, with four fingers this time, stretching myself as I fucked it in the same fast, quick, and speedy manner that George fucked Olivia. I came so many times Madame—four times. After I was spent, I asked myself, not in my head, but out loud, in a murmur, “What is Olivia doing to me?” When I came for the last time, I said this out loud too: “Oh Olivia, I love you! If only you know how much I love you.”

Not too loud, of course. Nobody could possibly hear me. I wouldn’t dare be that brave and bold. When I left the bathroom, and returned back to the study, I was surprised to find the naughty two gone. Where had they gone?

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Smut for Good Blog Hop: A Snog for Sommer

I feel the sheet under me, the sheet that felt so cold when he first carried me to it and laid me down but has since submitted to warmth underneath my naked but for rope body. I feel the hemp rope tight but not painful around both wrists, tied in front of me in a placating prayer. He is kind and didn’t tie them to my rear, so I can lay flat on the bed. He is cruel because I know this means he plans to keep me like this for some time. Rope also adorns my ankles, keeping them bound together although I can crook my legs open at the knees. Or rather, he can prise them apart. My mind cartwheels again. I try for a dry swallow.

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How to make sure you buy a sex toy you’ll actually use

I’m proud to introduce my first outing on the fabulous LELO blog: Don’t Judge a Sex Toy by its Price Tag.
As well as giving you a Jessie J earworm for the rest of the day, you’ll learn what it is about some sex toys that make them a lasting part of your go-to collection, other than simply a high price on the label.
Don’t pay for brand names, fancy packaging or marketing spiel – pay for a sex toy which you’ll actually use.

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Challenge Cara: Alternative uses for a blow up sex doll?

3 Sickie stand in at the office. If you are technical in the slightest I am sure you could fashion some kind of remotely controlled inflation/deflation device.

4 Travel by public transport and sick of people taking the seat right next to you when there’s plenty of others? Never again want to be within intimate distance of the great unwashed? No problem. Take your inflatable friend with you and you have a constant public transport companion who reeks with the delicate, arousing and attractive scent of, erm, vinyl.

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Mango Garden Press Announces New Book by Award-Winning Sex Educator Sheri Winston

Medical professional Sheri Winston is one of the United States’ leading sex teachers. Her celebrated teaching skills, specialized knowledge and unique Wholistic Sexuality™ approach make her a sought-after teacher and presenter. She is a certified nurse-midwife, gynecology practitioner and licensed massage therapist as well as an expert in the esoteric erotic arts. She has been featured on Strange Sex (TLC) and The Doctors (CBS).

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Win a free copy of The Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica by Rose Caraway (and read a hot excerpt right now)

It’s easy to enter this competition, simply gain as many entries as you can from the options on the Rafflecopter widget below. You can even tweet once per day until competition end, to give you maximum chance of winning. The prize is a hard copy edition (yep, a real book in the post) of Rose Caraway’s The Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica.

The competition is open internationally and ends 29 September at 9pm UK time. Good luck folks!

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Pre-event: Smut in the City Manchester November 2014

My first up close and personal exposure to a Smut UK event was back in June, when I attended the very well organised and friendly Smut by the Sea in Scarborough, UK. Reading that report, you can see why I am very much looking forward to the next meet. And it will be a seasonal and festive Smut fest just before Christmas, what could be better?

Smut in the City Manchester is taking place at the Manchester Conference Centre, at the address shown below. It’s on the 15 November and begins at 9am, finishing at 5pm.

In my opinion this is an unmissable event for all interested in erotic writing and networking in the erotica community. It’s a great opportunity to meet your favourite authors as well as other friendly faces from the sex blogging and adult products community, including Segzi and Ann Summers. I will be taking part in the reading slam as well as demonstrating my Fantasy Beginner’s Bondage Kit. There will be refreshments and lunch provided, and there’s a tombola where you can win a whole host of sexy prizes and sex toys.

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Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: Hedovibes #58

Share to Win Competition: WIN £50 to spend at Sh! -by Cara Sutra (ends 9/30)
$20 SheVibe Gift Card -by BeckAndHerKinks (ends 10/3)
Twitter Giveaway: Handcuffs when @BeckandHerKinks reaches 2000 followers -by BeckAndHerKinks
SGP’s Mega Social Media Giveaway -by Slutty Girl Problems
1000 Follower Giveaway – Tantus Maverick and Little Secrets Spoon -by dizzygirl
Submit a 30 Second Video to Win a Minx Vibrator -by Slutty Girl Problems

Cara Sutra nominated for mumpreneur entrepreneur award 2014

Cara Sutra nominated for a Mumpreneur Award 2014

Being a parent whilst juggling a business is a hard task, and nobody knows this better than Cara Sutra. Cara, a mum of two from Lincolnshire, UK, runs the Cara Sutra sex blog and sex toys reviews online magazine. The business was officially launched in 2013 as a way for Cara to stay at home with her young children. She has been nominated for an award at The Mumpreneur Awards 2014 in association with Amazon, a national award scheme for parents who run their own enterprise.

The Mumpreneur Awards 2014 in association with Amazon are the UK’s first national business awards dedicated solely to parents in business. Now in its sixth year, the awards have been a platform for many mumpreneurs to enhance their business, and continue to grow even through this uncertain economic climate.

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Buy comfortable and sexy mastectomy lingerie with confidence

Thanks to forward thinking company Voluptasse, run by managing director Mel MacFarlane, there is now an approachable and knowledgable outlet for sexy mastectomy lingerie. Voluptasse has brought a few different mastectomy lingerie lines to its stock base, including Nicola Jane and Anita.

Not only is there an attractive, feminine assortment of mastectomy lingerie to peruse and purchase, Mel has shown sincere commitment to her cause. She recently dedicated herself to an intensive training course, which covers all areas of mastectomy lingerie fitting and the needs of those affected.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Hedonist Six

Hedonist Six (or simply “H”) is a romance writer based in rainy England. Addicted to caffeine, chocolate and impure thoughts, she likes to write short stories and serial novels dealing with those aspects of the human condition that we all think about, yet dare not discuss openly. No-one is perfect, neither are her characters, which makes them all the more relatable and well-liked by her fans.

Hedonist Six an independent author, who started her career in 2012. Her work can best be described as “Uncensored Romance”. The connection between the main characters takes centre-stage, but not much happens behind closed doors. Some of Hedonist’s favourite words contain only four letters, yet another thing left “uncensored” in her work.

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Cara Sutra hops across to Ann Summers to provide expert sex toys advice

Why was I there? I was the guest for the day, both in-house and the online expert for a social media based advice chat. #AskCara was the hashtag and people were invited to tweet me their questions about sex and sex toys. There were quite a few waiting when I arrived at the desk they’d cleared, next to a gorgeous little shrine dedicated to me. Sweet!

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List of Shame: The 10 sex toys which need forcing into retirement

I know you all wonder about the dark side of my sex toy collection and for once I don’t mean bondage restraints. The ones that sadly, didn’t get (chucked) away. The toys which have brought me to tears of frustration. The toys which have made me grip the sheets harder as I bite back the venom which threatens to tumble forth as I search for the right button. The toys which have made me scream – in agony.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Rebel’s Notes

I love that I have a place to put my words, to express and expose myself. I am an exhibitionist by nature, albeit a shy one. I find it easier to express myself on paper and in pictures than I do in real life. Other than having a place where I can express myself, I love the interaction with like-minded people and making friends around the globe. Through my website and attending erotic meetings such as Eroticon, I have met a lot of lovely people and it has even given me more self-confidence.