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The history of sex toys – and what the future may hold

It may surprise you to learn that products designed for sexual intimacy were popular well before Sex and the City or Fifty Shades of Grey. In fact, the global phenomenon that is today’s sex toys actually originated in the civilisations of ancient history. It is fascinating to discover just how sex toys have developed through the centuries, from primitive and humble beginnings to the technological wonders of a sexually progressive 21st century.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Lisabet Sarai

“Answer me, slut!” With his free hand he gives a vicious twist to my right nipple. It’s still swollen and tender from the clamps he made me wear through dinner. A bolt of pain arcs from the abused nub down to my engorged clit, transmuting to electric pleasure along the way.
“Ow! Oh…!” He slides a finger along the wet slit between my splayed thighs, then snatches it away.

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Choosing The Best Tools for Spanking, Corporal Punishment & Pain Fetish

So you want to get hitty with it? Has Fifty Shades of Grey got you all fired up for a bit of spanking action? Or do you hate absolutely everything 50 Shades and want to ‘do it properly’?
There are loads of different spanking tools out there that you can use for anything from a sensual bit of power play in the bedroom with your lover all the way up to a strict disciplinary at your local dungeon or fetish club.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: The Big Gay Review

So the blog is called The Big Gay Review and I really wish there was a ‘hilarious’ anecdote to go with why I called the blog that – but the reality is, I thought it would be funny. I was thinking about things like ‘My Big Fat Greek Wedding’ and basically thought ‘Let’s just call it what it is – it’s a review blog written by a big gay!’. And that’s honest to the dildo gods the reason behind the name.

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Pride Brighton 2015: The parade, the festival and the bomb scare

Our driver drove my partner Sable and I down to the hotel early Thursday evening. Our hotel, The Mercure, is a beautiful Victorian property overlooking the sea. We had an upgraded, seaview room and once we arrived we settled in immediately. It was late after the long drive from Lincolnshire to the south coast so after a much-needed shared bottle of wine from room service we slept soundly.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Charlotte Howard

“What the hell, Max?” she exclaimed, but it wasn’t because of his nudity. She’d seen him naked more times than any other woman.
He stepped into a pair of tight boxer shorts and turned around, preparing himself for the grief he had been hoping to avoid. “What have I done now?” he asked, walking towards the wardrobe and pulling out a pair of dark, shredded jeans.

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Frolicka: Your One Stop Sexuality Magazine & Sex Toys Shop

Shopping for sex toys on the high street isn’t as easy for everybody. What if you’re out shopping with your kids, or dad, or mother-in-law? What if that sex shop is right by where you work? What if you don’t want to head home, past the curtain-twitching neighbours, with a sex shop branded bag overflowing with anal beads, vibrating butt plugs and rabbit vibrators?
Here’s the good news: you don’t have to.


The sounds of an orgasm: are yours a secret or a scream?

Since the Great National Orgasm Day of 2014, in which I was outed to the nation as a ‘professional sex toy tester’, a whole year has flown by quicker than a wank with a Doxy Wand on top speed. It’s National Orgasm Day 2015 and, although I’m not shaking my dildos in the red tops this year, I’d like to talk to you about the sounds of an orgasm.


Why is it So Hard to Talk About Sex with Our Partner?

Communication is key to any good relationship, so why do some people find it so difficult to talk about sex? The internet is littered with questions from curious and sometimes desperate people seeking counsel on how they can talk to their partner about their sexuality. What their likes and dislikes are, how to broach their fantasies or kinks, and how to encourage their lover to desire sex more.

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Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Just Indecerous

Hi all, thanks for taking the time to check out this little blogger spotlight on me. My name is not actually Justin but due to dumb luck (see below) it is how I am known within the Sexblogging community. I’m a 30 year old guy that produces sex toy reviews, Vlogs and educational pieces at justindecerous.com generally in a BDSM context from a Dom’s point of view though not always.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Kate Deveaux

Hi, I’m Kate Deveaux and it’s a pleasure for me to be here today at Cara Sutra. I write toe- curling erotic romance and I confess that I love writing sizzling stories — the hotter the better. I have 7 published books at the moment and more coming out soon. I love to push the envelope with my themes. It must be naughty side of me that is indulged each time I dream up a new story and begin typing as fast as my fingers can fly along the keyboard.