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Feel More Attractive, Sexy & Confident – 10 Ways to Give Your Self Esteem a Much Needed Boost

Knowing what you like in and out of bed is always good for your self-esteem, but we’re going to focus on between the sheets for this one. It can be difficult to feel confident in bed if you are unsure about what turns you on, so do some research! Treat yourself to some alone time and satisfy your curiosity – that means experimenting with toys, movies and whatever else takes your fancy. When you are more confident about what brings you pleasure, you’ll find that it’s a lot easier to be more assertive. That’s out of the bedroom too!

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Erotica News: Free excerpt from Bound for Trouble edited by Alison Tyler

So, hell, now I find myself hog-tied, wrists bound to ankles with silky red rope, in the swanky riverside apartment of some guy that, until just over an hour ago, I’d never laid eyes on. All I’ve got on is a pair of black lace panties and a pair of Rupert Sanderson stilettos, having left my dignity somewhere over by the door. I’ve never been tied up before, I’ve never been spanked before and I’ve certainly no idea what’s going to happen next. And I have to say, I think I’m enjoying myself. But how the fuck did I get myself into this in the first place?

I think it was something I said.


Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Dark Inferno

Finding she wore no bra beneath the black lace, his hand moulded to her left breast; it filled his hand nicely and eager digits kneading the soft, supple flesh while his thumb and forefinger rolled the pebbled nipple. Thrilled by his touch, she arched her back, pressing her breast further into his palm, and moaned in utter wonder as he trailed his tongue along her collarbone, soothing the bite marks, her fingers tugging at his hair each time his thumb her playfully squeezed her pert bud.

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Competition: Share your best sex tip to win one of 50 Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels Sets!

To celebrate the release of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie trailer, Durex are giving 50 lucky Cara Sutra readers the chance to win a Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels set. That’s right, there is a mountainous FIFTY sets to give away!

All you need to do to enter is firstly, be a resident of the UK or Republic of Ireland, then share your best sex tip – or a tip for heightening the intimacy and pleasure in the bedroom – as a comment on this blog post.


Together for four years – and this weekend we try something new

We’re actually staying in a hotel room, for two nights, the two of us (my man and I) without anyone else. For most people in a relationship this long, this would have been out of the way and done with in the first 6 months, a year at most. Definitely before having a child, in any case. Not us. We’ve always had someone with us when we’ve stayed anywhere, from ex partners to the chauffeur slave who attends events with us.

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A mountain of sex toys but still need sex? Don’t worry, it’s natural

Physical intercourse, or sex with another person, ticks psychological boxes that masturbation doesn’t have on its radar. Sex is a whole different ball game. You are considering the other person’s reactions to you, your body, your actions and words, as well as putting time and effort into discovering how best to please their body and mind. Sex is hard – excuse the pun. But still we desperately search it, seeking the advice of men’s and women’s sexual health magazines and international sex experts in a bid to become the most eligible sex partner (and sometimes life partner) we could possibly be.


Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Missy May

I love interacting. It’s not often that some one comments on one of my posts, but it really means a lot to me. And I love responding and interacting when some one does take the time to comment. I also love how I am always learning. I am always researching, asking questions, reading, and more. Not only am I learning about the world of sex, sex positive stuff, rape culture, toy materials, etc, I am also learning coding and how to handle WordPress issues, and my favorite part is digging deeper and learning to be part of my niche’s community.

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The Act Itself: A brand new print magazine devoted to the world of erotica

I was delighted to receive the debut issue of The Act Itself recently, free of charge in exchange for an honest overview and communication to my erotica loving audience here at Cara Sutra. My first impression upon opening the discreet, well wrapped package was the size of the magazine. Instead of little more than a leaflet which I was expecting (print is very expensive), I held in my hands an A4, glossy leafed book, rather than a magazine. With 150 pages to leaf through (which are admittedly in black and white unlike the outer cover) I knew that this was a magazine which would easily see any avid fan of erotica through four months until the next issue arrived on the mat.

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Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: HedoVibes #51

Win the Segzi Stroker plus Cheeky Weekend Goodies! -by Cara Sutra (ends 7/27)
Giveaway: Red, White, And Blue (Two Prize Packs) -by BeckandHerKinks (ends 7/30)
Giveaway – The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy -by BlissfullyOrgasmic (ends 7/30)
Win a Bound Dildo -by Bex (ends 7/31)
Share to Win a £50 Spending Spree at Simply Pleasure! -by Cara Sutra (ends 7/31)

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Want a dungeon with a difference? The Boiler Room opens September 2014

Offering a new take on the traditional dungeon or the arguably overdone ‘Red Room of Pain’, The Boiler Room promises to not only revolutionise your sex life but also your flavour of kink. Filled with BDSM accessories and more hardcore bondage sex toys than you’ll find in the mainstream, The Boiler Room is a play setting as well as part of the main shop. Instead of merely offering a location to purchase products though, it will also form a beautiful place and set the appropriate atmosphere for many workshops and demonstrations of a BDSM tone.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Rose Caraway

“A short story is a different thing all together – a short story is like a kiss in the dark from a stranger.” ― Stephen King

Rose Caraway is a native Northern California writer, editor, blogger, narrator, audiobook producer and podcaster for the hit show “The Kiss Me Quick’s” Erotica Podcast. She freely celebrates all things erotica with her wonderful Lurid Listeners and is fondly known as “The Sexy Librarian” who scours the globe searching for more sexy stories for her fans, which includes inviting many of today’s most influential erotica authors to guest write for her show.

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Competition: Enter to win a fab free anal sex toys starter kit from Midnight Play

In this new fantastic Cara Sutra competition with goodies donated by Midnight Play, you can win a selection of anal sex toys and associated items which make up the perfect anal sex toys beginner’s bundle.

This amazing prize bundle contains:

Liquorice Dip Set of Three Black Butt Plugs (RRP £17.99 but only £11.48 at Midnight Play)
Easy to use Anal Douche (RRP £7.99 but only £4.35 at Midnight Play)
100ml (3.6oz) bottle of Wet Uranus water based anal lube (RRP £11.45 but only £7.23 at Midnight Play)
That’s an overall RRP value of over £37!


Sex News: Rocks-Off wins prestigious award at the 2014 Storerotica Awards

Northamptonshire-based adult pleasure products manufacturer Rocks-Off Ltd are continuing their successful year by winning yet another award – this time: “Foreign Manufacturer of the Year” at the 2014 Storerotica Awards in Los Angeles which made up part of the ANME trade show.

Rocks-Off’s Managing Director, Sue Walsh, accepted the award at the ceremony in Burbank, Los Angeles and thanked the industry for their continued support. Being recognised as a leading manufacturer on the global-stage remains very humbling to the whole team at the Kettering-based manufacturer and highlights the quality and innovation of UK manufacturers in the adult pleasure market as a whole.

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The kinky crafts of Ruffled Sheets

In case you haven’t been following Ruffled Sheets’ website and Twitter, Andy is a fab blogger, as well as male sex toy reviewer who specialises in male chastity devices. You can read his guest feature Ruffled Sheets Guide to Male Chastity at Cara Sutra here.

As well as writing about all things man-sex (or the kinky lack there-of), Ruffled Sheets turns his sizeable and sexy hands to a few other fascinating pursuits. No, I’m not talking about the coffee and cocktails, I mean his creative use of paracord.

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Can’t Get Enough: Erotica for Women by Tenille Brown – Exclusive Excerpt & Competition to Win a Free Book!

Picking up where Gotta Have It left off, Can’t Get Enough captures the passion and intensity of quickies and nooners: those delicious times when the urge to merge takes over. Veteran erotica author and first-time editor Tenille Brown has collected stories for Can’t Get Enough that highlight the essence of insatiable desire. With contributions from familiar names like Rachel Kramer Bussel, Jacqueline Applebee and Giselle Renarde, along with newer faces like Monica Corwin and Beatrix Ellroy, this is a book full of diverse and dynamic characters who are bold and daring. The authors here knock the theme of Can’t Get Enough right out of the park with stories that will leave readers as breathless as the characters they’re reading about, dying for more.


Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Beck and her Kinks

This week’s sex blogger in the spotlight is Beck and Her Kinks: a forthright, confident sex blogger with a spicy attitude for all things kinky and sexy.

Beck’s blog is a fabulous mixture of everything you could want from a sex blog. Sex toy and adult product reviews, erotica, videos, educational articles, sex toys shopping links, blogging memes, sexy photography and a lot more. Read on to find out more about the lady behind the website!

Would you like a free feature post of your own? They’re posted on Thursdays. If you’re a sex blogger or sex toy reviewer, check out my call for submissions here and email me here.

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Sex Toys Reviews Round Up: HedoVibes #50

Win a Fleshlight Launchpad -by NaughtyCC (ends 7/16)
Win Icicles No. 27 -by BlissfullyOrgasmic (ends 7/16)
GET WET with Wet’s HUGE Giveaway! -by Slutty Girl Problems (ends 7/27)
Win the Segzi Stroker plus Cheeky Weekend Goodies! -by Cara Sutra (ends 7/27)
Giveaway: Red, White, And Blue (Two Prize Packs) -by BeckandHerKinks (ends 7/30)
Win a Bound Dildo -by Bex (ends 7/31)