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A Domme’s Fantasy: Your Submission

By Cara Sutra:
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if you were completely submissive to me. My mind tends to stray towards a sexual kinky fantasy – a Domme’s fantasy. They’re not talked about much, right? Usually all eyes are on the submissive – the submissive male, in the majority of FemDom – but what does a Domme dream about?

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8 Things All Men Do During Sex Which Spells The End Of Your Relationship

By Cara Sutra:
Can the world please stop caring so damn much about what (supposedly) all men do? Or what all men think? And how, all these things that ALL MEN DO! Or ALL MEN THINK! are immediate and obvious signs that you, as a woman, are unattractive/unloved/neglected/totally shit in bed and should go and live under a rock with only a masturbatory twig for company?

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The rise of the sex toy subscription box, and why it’s such a difficult business

By Cara Sutra:
Sex toy subscription boxes have been rising in visibility over the past few years, at least that’s how it seems to me. Several years back a new sex toy subscription box service would launch once a year, then it steadily rose to two or three new ones a year and over the past year it seems to be every few months that a new adult subscription box service has launched.

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Please vote Cara Sutra as the ETO Awards’ Best Erotic Journalist 2016

By Cara Sutra:
So I just found out this morning that I’ve been short-listed for the Best Erotic Journalist Award in the ETO Awards 2016 and I am so very grateful and excited! Thanks to everyone who has voted for me so far – I would be ecstatic if you would consider just pushing my button one more time and voting me as your Best Erotic Journalist 2016.

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Submitting to a Mistress

By slave christina:
This is my story of submitting to a Mistress. Sometimes you meet someone and there is an instant attraction. Other times you may take some time to find a level of happiness. Other times it is the situation you are both in that brings you together and sometimes it is the situation that keeps you together or forces you apart.

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The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Greed

By Jon Pressick:
Think back to the most recent time you found yourself in bed with someone. Now, now, calm down a bit, I imagine there are some pretty sexy thoughts running through your head at the moment. Or, perhaps, maybe you should focus on those thoughts. What are they of? Are you thinking about something you did or something your partner did? Are you envisioning your body being touched or theirs? And whose pleasure is it that you remember the most clearly?

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Why I Quit Sugar, Gluten & The Pill

I must admit, when I started to follow a gluten free diet at the start of January I didn’t think a) it would make all that much difference and b) that I’d be able to stick with it for long. I went gluten-free partly as a health inspired New Year’s Resolution and partly using the excuse of a fresh start after another belly-busting Christmas to somehow achieve a happier tummy.

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A (Quiet) Celebration Of Silent Sex

There are ‘noisy sex’ jokes made on TV shows all the time. If the bed posts are knocking against the wall in the next room it’s a sign there’s some damn good sex going on. Throw a few ‘oh my GOD!’s and ‘yes, yes YESSS’es in there and yeah, we get the point. Someone’s getting it, and they’re getting it good.

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Tips For Beginners To BDSM And Bondage

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

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Pain And Pleasure: Feet, Footwear and Feminism

By Zak Jane Keir:
Oh holy shit, my feet! Just have to start by saying that, because it’s the thought running most regularly through my head today. A kind friend passed on a pair of beautiful 40-hole black Doc Martens to me as they were, apparently surplus to her requirements. She said they had hardly been worn, and she was absolutely right. They had hardly been worn at all.

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Sex and Disability: A Peek Inside The Bedroom

I am disabled. I know. I don’t look disabled, right? In some comparatively small ways, my disability affects my sex life and masturbation.
I have a severe high frequency hearing loss, making me deaf but not Deaf. The problems caused by my deafness in life are small and fairly easy to overcome or circumvent, therefore I don’t really class myself as disabled.

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Long Distance Lovers: When Dirty Talk Is The Sex

By Cameryn Moore
A lot of the advice out there about dirty talk treats it as a sort of accessory to “real sex”. It’s like putting a feather boa on: it’s all fun and tickly and exotic for maybe ten minutes, but at some point you’re gonna wanna tear it off because it’s getting in the way of the good stuff…