NaNoWriMo – Everything you need to know about the November Novel Writing Challenge

“Everyone has a book inside them,” the late Christopher Hitchens famously declared. Will your book remain hidden, or are you ready to share it with the world?

NaNoWriMo is short for National Novel Writing Month. It takes place every November and it’s your chance to let your writing light shine. With a set time to write your book, you’ll be more likely to knuckle down and get those words out of the deepest, darkest recesses of your mind and on to the page.

Your goal is the admittedly ambitious task of writing a 50,000 word novel (well, a rough draft of one) by 11:59 PM, November 30th. Breaking the mountain down into manageable daily amounts will ensure that you smash this novel writing goal.

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Guest Halloween Erotica: His Parting Gift, by Melissa MacFarlane

Greedily, I grabbed his throbbing, powerful cock. Desperate for him to give me a sweet release but he shook his head and whispered gently ‘I watched you wait for me every night.’ Another kiss, travelling down towards my navel ‘I watched you cry, I watched your desperation and I witnessed your hope.’ I gasped as his lips passed my naval and travelled further towards my cunt ‘Now, let’s make the most of our short time together’. He plunged his eager tongue directly only my soaking wet pussy and began to tease my clitoris with achingly slow laps of his tongue, causing me to scream out in hot desperate moans.

Slamming on the brakes to find myself

I feel like I’m becoming a cold, corporate thing that isn’t really me. I’ve lost some of what makes me a person in my writing, in my blogging. I feel so privileged to be offered so much writing work, but recently I’ve been a writing machine. Churning out my best research, thoughts, tailored opinions and experiences for the delectation of various audiences. Marketing writing and promotions, features, columns and spotlights, admins and advert placement and promotional tweets, optimisation and backlinks and answering countless emails that never end. Sales advice, product advice, digital marketing advice, blogging advice.


Kinkly Reveals the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes 2014! Congratulations to the Best Sex Bloggers In the World

It’s finally here: Kinkly have announced the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2014! I am honoured to have reached the Top Ten and I’m currently dancing around the lounge in a dangerously long cape and wearing sparkly knickers over my Lycra catsuit.

A huge congratulations to all the hardworking sex bloggers (because it IS hard work, believe it or not) who made the Top 100 – you’re all contributing to a global phenomenon of sex positivity, education and an inspiration to others to learn and try something new relating to sexuality and sensuality every single day.

Want to see the full list? Here’s Kinkly’s Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes 2014 – the very best sex bloggers in the world:

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Erotic Book News: Alex Jordaine’s ‘Bound to the Mistress’ & ‘Mistress Absolute’ Femdom Erotica

As most of you will know, I have a personal interest in all things FemDom. As a Domme and Mistress in the BDSM scene it was genuinely thrilling to find an erotica author who writes erotic fiction based around the thrilling power dynamics of Female Dominance and male submission.

I have been a supporter of Alex Jordaine’s work in this area for quite some time. The seventh book in his ‘Mistress’ collection of novels is entitled ‘Bound to the Mistress’ and was released in April this year. Although this is his 7th book in the collection, the novels are all stand-alone and so can be read in any order.

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Your Essential Guide to Prepping for Your First Kinky Sex Session

Kinky doesn’t have to mean scary! With the right preparation and the right communication, your kinky adventure will be off to a flying start.

If you haven’t tried anything kinky before, it can seem like a seriously scary step into the unknown. You may be worried about how you and your partner will react in this new environment, if you really want to introduce such a new element into your sex life, or just simply worried that you don’t know enough to do it right. Well, look no further than our essential guide to preparing both mentally and physically for your first ever kinky experience. Yes, it can seem a lot to take in – but we will be holding your hand all the way!

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Get What You Want: How to Bed the One you Have Had Your Eye On

If you’re going to seduce the man of your dreams, you need to turn on the charm. Yes, we mean some serious flirting. We’re all familiar with the old tricks of playing with your hair and bending over his desk, but how about something a little more… upfront. If you’re both milling about at a dull work party, try letting him know how interested you are with a very saucy one-liner. Try something like “I just can’t wait to take this dress off, do you fancy giving me a hand?” If that doesn’t get him from uninterested to putty in your hands, we don’t know what will!


A Beginner’s Guide to Electrosex & Electro Sex Toys

You will need a main unit (known as the stimulator) to deliver the electric current. These are usually the basis of a starter kit, such as the ElectraStim Flick EM60-E Electro Stimulation Pack. This stimulator offers 24 intensity settings so you can increase the power in line with your desires. There is also the option to receive or deliver to a partner rhythmic stimulation in line with the movement of your hand. The ElectraStim Flick costs just £99 and comes with full instructions and electro pads so that you can get started right away.

The ElectraStim SensaVox EM140 High Spec Stimulator (£299) is for those looking for a more advanced kit and experience. Not only are there an amazing 99 intensity levels, there’s also 9 pre-programmed patterns to enjoy. You can use SensaVox to create sophisticated stimulation patterns using either the included microphone or by feeding audio directly into the stimulator. The soundwaves are translated into a stimulation beat that rises and falls in sympathy with the audio, teasing and tantalising you with sensations that can be modified to match your desires.

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Sex Toy Review Round Up: Hedovibes #64

Hungry for More Giveaway -by Scarlet Rose Fox (ends 10/28)
Can’t Get Enough Women’s Erotica -by BeckAndHerKinks (ends 10/30)
Win a £50 voucher for Nice n Naughty Treats during October -by Cara Sutra (ends 10/31)
Win a set of Jopen Stella II Kegel Balls -by Property Of Potter (ends 10/31)
Erotic Book Giveaway: Cover Him With Darkness -by CliticalJenne (ends 11/1)


Your Guide to the Best Sexy & Romantic Christmas Gifts from Belle de Soir

Christmas is a magical time of year. Regardless of age, it’s impossible to deny that warm sense of rich delight that suffuses every home once December begins. It’s no surprise, then, that Christmas and romance go hand in hand. Couples who prioritise romance are eager to select that perfect Christmas gift, which is why I’m so pleased to be able to provide this extensive sexy gift guide to help you through the festive shopping season.

Belle de Soir is a luxurious shopping boutique which attends to your every sexual, sensual and romantic need. That’s why Belle de Soir is the only choice for discerning and romantic Christmas shoppers this year. With low prices, quick dispatch and discreet delivery you are assured of the most pleasing as well as pleasurable service in the business.


The Sounds of Pleasure: Ruffled Sheets Guide to Urethral Sounding

Aside from the two questions above, possibly the most common I’m asked is “Does it hurt?”. The short answer is: No. But let me give a more detailed explanation. Sounding has never hurt me. Not even in the slightest. There’s also no reason why it will hurt you, too. But more than that, it won’t just “not hurt”, it’ll feel amazing! Sounding can be done by anyone, but I’m going to write about it from a male perspective, as that’s the only way I can. So forgive me if, from now on, this is a bit penis-centric. For me, sounding isn’t just slightly pleasurable. It’s wonderful. It’s intense, yes. But in an amazing way. To me, sounding feels like a long, slow orgasm, that only ends when you stop stimulation.

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Sex Toy Review Round Up: Hedovibes #63

Hungry for More Giveaway -by Scarlet Rose Fox (ends 10/28)
Can’t Get Enough Women’s Erotica -by BeckAndHerKinks (ends 10/30)
Win a £50 voucher for Nice n Naughty Treats during October -by Cara Sutra (ends 10/31)
Win a set of Jopen Stella II Kegel Balls -by Property Of Potter (ends 10/31)
Erotic Book Giveaway: Cover Him With Darkness -by CliticalJenne (ends 11/1)

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Sean Michael

He put on the condom, his hand slicking down over his own length, and he lubed the glove up.

Then he pushed Toby’s legs farther apart and settled between them.

“Going to pop your cherry, honey. Going to let you come on my cock.”

Putting Toby’s legs over his shoulders, he pressed the head of his erection against Toby’s needy hole and began to push. Toby’s sweet hole fought him for a heartbeat, then the tip of his cock popped in.

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No Strings Attached – How to Have Shame-Free Sex in the 21st Century

Society generally accepts the following as ‘normal’ reasons for having sex – because you are expressing love to your partner, or you are hoping to build a family together. Having fun and convenient no-strings attached sex, you may be at risk of having a hard time justifying why you’re having a sex-only relationship. Of course, it doesn’t help that there can be a double standard against women ‘just’ having sex without the partnership. Be aware of the attitudes that surround women and sex and be mindful of confiding in friends about your new relationships.


Sex & Disability: How Escorts for Disabled Clients Can Improve Love Lives & Confidence

So why would a disabled person choose to pay for the services of an escort? Well, there are a variety of reasons, with no client’s story being the same. It could be due to feelings of isolation because of their disability, wanting to get used to their body again following an event such as an accident or maybe just like any able-bodied person – they want to have a good time in the company of a gorgeous girl. Whatever the reason, a disabled client needs to know that their particular wishes and needs are met.


Sex Blogger Spotlight Series: Inquisitive Clam

My fiance and I were in a long distance relationship for two separated years at the beginning of our relationship, and I joined a site called Sex Forums initially looking for ideas to try to make our sex life a little more exciting. My fiance has always been shy when it comes to talking about sex, and we didn’t have much phone sex because getting started was awkward, so I was looking for other things we could try.

I started a blog on Sex Forums and began writing sex toy reviews as a hobby, and while it took several years, that blog turned into a WordPress blog with my own domain. I’m very much a newbie, but I’ve already learned a lot and continue to do plenty of research.