Dear Cara How can I get a bigger penis? There are loads of products on the web but I’m not sure which one to try – please help! Hey – thanks for your question. There are indeed many products for penile enhancement (aka getting a bigger penis)
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Prepare. Have everything within reach that you think you’ll possibly need. Condoms, easy open lubricant, favourite sex toys, blindfold and restraints. Preparation is vital for a smooth, interruption free session! Hygiene. Nobody likes getting down and dirty with someone who is, well… already dirty (in the bad
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1. Do not use wysiwyg website or blog creators! They make you look instantly cheap and tacky from the outset, as well as incredibly amateur. If you are serious about your website and presence online, wysiwyg sites such as Moonfruit, Wix and Weebly will not do you
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Dear Cara, Help! I really don’t understand the big deal about erotic massage. Surely it’s all about sex in the sack! This so-called ‘erotic massage’ seems like such a cop out. Anonymous Thanks for your question! The main draw of erotic massage is that it allows you
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Dear Cara, How can I find a girl to be intimate with? I am a shy lady, in late twenties and only just coming to terms with the fact I am bi-curious/bisexual. I fantasise about being with a woman but have no clue where to start looking
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I hear so often of couples or people within other relationships complaining about their partner on Twitter or Facebook these days. The phrase may take the route of, ‘he doesn’t understand me any more’ or ‘she never listens’ or something along those lines.
I find it a real shame that these outbursts, so honest and fixing squarely on the root of the problem, or at least on the centre of the person’s feelings about the problem, are directed to their social media, rather than to their partner.
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Hi Cara, I have been looking to get into the BDSM scene by Serving a mistress. How do I find a mistress that would be right for me? There are loads on different sites but as a complete novice I need some help. Regards Simon Hi
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How to buy your first sex toy So, you’ve heard a lot about these ‘sex toys’, right? Don’t worry; I am not going to sell you a dodgy length of battery powered rubber cloaked by midnight darkness, from under my long mac, on a street corner. Sex
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Dear Cara, I have heard that if you use toys anally, they can get lost inside you. Is this true? ————————————————————————– Hi and thanks for the question! There is some truth to what you say, not that it can actually get ‘lost’ inside you but that if
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Dear Cara, We’ve been looking for some sex toys my man and I can use together for some time now. The We-Vibe family and the LELO Tiani styles are all very well but a little expensive for us right now. Aren’t there any cheap couples toys we
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Dear Cara, At first I thought my man was really into me, but as time progresses he seems to have less and less interest in sex. It’s not as though I think he wants other women, he just doesn’t instigate anything sexual at all. I want to
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Dear Cara, I am interested in challenging myself with the largest anal toys I can find, please help! What is the widest toy you sell and the longest (including double dildos)? Is there a toy you’d recommend as having the best of both? ————————————————————————– Hello
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Dear Cara, I’m a single female that’s recently been asked by a couple if I’d like to join them for some fun. We all seem to be on the same wave length. So far we have all been open and honest with each other and plan to
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Dear Cara, I’m male and I want to buy some toys for anal training. However, other than fingers, nothing else has successfully penetrated me there. What kind of thickness would be advisable to look at? Also do you recommend inflatable or solid form? ——————————————————————————————- Hi and thanks
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Dear Cara Which sex toy should I buy my wife for Christmas? She has severe endemetriosis so intercourse is very painful for her. We haven’t had intercourse in months, so slow and steady is the way. She has used clitoral vibrators in the past but found them
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Dear Cara, I’ve just discovered I might be gay, as I pulled a woman the other week when I went out! I was wondering if you could suggest anything we could use together, bearing in mind it’s the first time I’ve really been with a woman. Nothing
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I’ll be answering questions, calming concerns and presenting guides on how to help you make the most of your love life, whether you’re single, with a partner/partners or venturing into the world of orgasms with toys, and more. Whatever your sexuality, preferences or experience, I’ll be able
Read more →So what is it with lingerie designers thinking women don’t want to feel sexy all day? Recently I started to shop for more sexy lingerie. I’m running low in that department! Yes, I know, hard to believe. The majority of my sexiness is contained in small clubbing
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