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Articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog cover the entire spectrum of sexuality, discussing everything pertinent to the world of intimate pleasure and romantic relationships. You’ll find a wealth of sex tips and advice to help you enjoy higher levels of stimulation and enjoyment whether you prefer to play solo or with a partner. Relationships and dating can be tricky areas to navigate successfully, so read up on real experiences here on the blog from both myself and expert guest authors who share their relationship advice.

If you’re ready for the decadently darker side of sex, peer into the world of bondage and spanking… you’ll find plenty of advice articles here for beginners all the way up to veteran kinksters. The kinky sex tips and BDSM articles are sure to help you enjoy not only breathtakingly exciting power exchange playtimes, but ensure you’re both completely safe and emotionally comfortable at all times.

From time to time I write about the sexuality themed highlights of the year, such as National Orgasm Day, International Women’s Day, Organic Intimacy Week, LGBTQ+ Pride Month, Movember and more. You’ll also find fun and helpful seasonal articles covering such themes as romantic gift guides for Valentine’s Day and Christmas, spicing up the Halloween season in a sexy way and enjoying some red hot summer loving.

My sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality. I hope you enjoy reading all my articles.

Ideas for New Year’s Resolutions You’ll Actually Keep

Do you make New Year’s Resolutions? They sound great in theory, but 21% of resolution-setters break them by the end of January. Why is it so difficult to stay on track? Is there a way to make resolutions and stick to them throughout the year, and all the years to come? Absolutely – and today I’m sharing my ideas for New Year’s Resolutions you’ll actually keep.

5 Kinky Uses for Christmas Tinsel

As I’m focusing on ‘sexing up’ Christmas across a few blog features this year, my mind turned to how tinsel could be used in a sensual and erotic way. In this feature I’ll be sharing my ideas for 5 kinky uses for Christmas tinsel – perhaps changing how you look at this seemingly innocent festive adornment forever!
Of The Santa Persuasion - Christmas Erotica

Of The Santa Persuasion

‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring… Who was she kidding. She’d be stirring all night. She just wished it was for better reasons. Fuck, she could really do with an explosive orgasm or two right about now. Sadly, the only finger movements this evening were the back-and-forth motions of her pen over lined paper.

The Naughtivity: A Sexy Christmas Story

He was coming for me, so I lay down, wide legged, finding his hair with both hands at the exact same time his mouth found my clitoris. Two minutes. That’s all it took for him to make me come so hard I squirted in his face.
In Santa's Lap - Christmas Erotica

In Santa’s Lap

Her heart thumped in her chest. She didn't have to wait much longer. Dizzy with excitement, she hungrily looked over at him again. The legendary older man in his trademark plush suit was still sat in his grand chair, undoubtedly tired from the afternoon crowds.
Slave Santa and his Cruel Mistress - Christmas Erotica

Slave Santa & His Cruel Mistress

Her icy blast hit him with more bitter force than the harshest winter sleigh ride, turning his cheeks an even deeper shade of red. As she continued her angry tirade against him for his latest fuck-up, his body responded as usual to her cutting jibes. Why did Mistress' cruel taunts elicit such warm tingles in his nether regions? Why did the humiliation of being shouted at in front of all his elves never fail to make him stiffer than steel?
Santa Sutra & the Rebellious Rein-Girl - Christmas Erotica by Cara Sutra

Santa Sutra & the Rebellious Rein-Girl

Upon hearing her vain exclamation to the other three rein-girls over dinner that they weren’t even needed anyway, that she could do the job all by herself and probably even better at that, they’d at first looked surprised then strangely smug. How was she to know Santa Sutra would choose that exact moment to re-enter the feeding shed from behind her?

Festive Foreplay Ideas: Gift Yourselves A More Exciting Sex Life This Christmas

Elsewhere on the blog you can find tips on how to sex up your Christmas, but today I want to focus on an oft-forgotten area of a couple’s sex life – foreplay. Sex is so much better once you’re both properly in the mood, and with the 10 festive foreplay ideas I’m sharing here today you can gift yourselves a more exciting sex life this Christmas and through the years to come.

The Best Christmas Gift Of All: Festive Fiction

As he stood before me, I began to shiver with anticipation. Goosebumps danced upon my naked flesh, but the long wait and his silence had unnerved me. Impatiently, I began to crawl towards him, my hands encumbered by the cuffs but the throbbing between my legs pushing me further towards him. Kneeling at his feet, I nuzzled the soft velvety trousers and began to tug at the soft fabric with my teeth.

12 Days of Festive Romance: How Couples Can Sex Up Christmas

I’ve given some thought to how couples can sex up Christmas and enjoy unparalleled erotic intimacy through what can otherwise be a dark season. Light up your libido, hold on to your Santa hats and let’s get those erogenous zones tingling with my tasty tips for 12 days of festive romance!

Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide 2023

Christmas is full of sparkle and magic and feasting and twinkling lights in the darkness, with all the excitement the holidays bring. It’s no surprise that the holiday festivities get many of us into a passionate mood as well. That’s why romantic lingerie regularly features in sexy Christmas gift guides...

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023

I know that finding the perfect gift for your beloved can feel like navigating a maze of tinsel, but fear not! I’m here to help you sleigh the gift-giving game and make this holiday season one for the books. Welcome to my Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023!

Christmas-Themed Sex Toys Guide: Candy Cane Dildos & Santa Vibrators

For sex toy fans it's always exciting to see what new products will be released for the festive season, whether for personal pleasure or to gift to someone special. I noticed that one of my favourite sex toy shops, Bondara, are offering a limited-edition range of Christmas-themed sex toys this year and just had to write a feature highlighting them...

Where To Buy Sexy Advent Calendars This Christmas

To keep the spark alive through the crisp December days, though, there’s nothing quite like sexy advent calendars. Read on to discover where to buy your sex toy advent calendar this year – or a kinky bondage themed advent calendar, if you prefer.

Sex Toy Storage Options: How To Store Adult Toys Discreetly

I know how easy it is to get hooked on adding exciting new sex toys to your collection regularly. Before you know it, your bedside drawer is too small to store all those wonderful vibrators & dildos. What other sex toy storage options are available? What’s the best way to store adult toys discreetly?

Cheap Sexy Gift Ideas: Edible Underwear & Candy Love Rings

Enjoy my guide to edible underwear and candy love rings - plus other bedroom treats which you can exchange with your partner at any time of year as cheap sexy gifts. They are especially ideal as small romantic Christmas gifts though; sexy stocking fillers for an intimate festive moment. Or you could treat them for Valentine's Day or their birthday!

Halloween-Themed Sex Toys Guide

Welcome to my frighteningly orgasmic Halloween-Themed Sex Toys Guide! In this feature I’m going to showcase some truly scream-worthy vibrators, dildos, anal toys and more which are sure to go down a treat this Halloween –or any time of the year. If you’ve been looking for inspiration for a formidable sex toy for hair-raising personal pleasure, or an electrifying adult toy to share with your partner, you’re in the right place.

Sexiest Halloween Costumes Guide

Welcome to my Sexiest Halloween Costumes Guide! If you're struggling to decide between witchy, vampy or seductively feline dressing-up outfits for this spooky time of year, my saucy Halloween outfits 101 is here to help. Below you'll discover a showcase of some breathtakingly sexy Halloween costume ideas, at great prices & with discreet delivery from your favourite online adult retailers.

How To Have A Sexy Halloween

Sexing up seasonal events is just so much fun! Halloween is no exception thanks to the wicked fun and seductive costumes this time of year traditionally offers. Do you need some saucy Samhain inspiration? Then you’re in luck… read on to discover how to have a sexy Halloween – whether you're single or part of a couple.

Adult Halloween Party Games

For all those planning a Halloween party for their adult friends, I thought I’d ‘treat’ you to some of my favourite adult Halloween party games. These games are perfect for those who are a little older, but can be adapted for younger children to play too. Enjoy!