Do You Feel Guilty About Secret Sadistic Desires?

By Cara Sutra:
“I’m a vicious sadist – and I secretly harbour cruel, sadistic desires.”
It sounds like the opening line in some sort of therapy group for criminals, doesn’t it? However, there are plenty of people out there who have sadistic desires in a consensual, power exchange way. Do you identify as a sadist in the BDSM community? Do you ever feel guilty about your sadistic desires?


BDSM: When Communication Stops After Consent

By Giles English:
In the ideal kinky world, everybody talks before and after doing power exchange: “Communicate, communicate, communicate.”
It’s the standard expectation in the BDSM community, where refusing to talk about kink is a red flag.
And yes, communicating about kink feels like a no-brainer. How else will you both make sure that everything is safe and consensual?


Is There A Difference Between D/s (Dominance/submission) And BDSM?

By Galen Fous:
I think of Ds/BDSM as the yin/Yang of Kink. Together they represent a sublime paradox. Two opposites. One side I consider sacred or light – the noble, romantic day-to-day relationship side of D/s. The other side I view as profane or dark – all that is taboo, forbidden, cruel and fierce within the sexual BDSM aspect.


Chastity Release – Unlocking & Orgasm

By Cara Sutra:
He looked up at me from where he knelt on the kitchen floor, a solitary tear running down his defeated face. That just caused my cunt to become wetter in beautifully cruel empathy. Finally, he’d completed the distasteful task. His expert tongue protruded, but not out of rudeness or as a plea for pussy. On the tip was a small, very shiny key.


Kink is a drug, and I’m chasing a higher high

By Cara Sutra:
There have been so many suddenly shocked faces during my conversations over the past few years that I’m thinking perhaps I’m getting a bit immune to the typically taboo realm of kink and fetish. That moment when you realise everyone at the surrounding tables in a restaurant have fallen quiet as you’re openly discussing anal reaming…


A Domme’s Fantasy: Your Submission

By Cara Sutra:
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if you were completely submissive to me. My mind tends to stray towards a sexual kinky fantasy – a Domme’s fantasy. They’re not talked about much, right? Usually all eyes are on the submissive – the submissive male, in the majority of FemDom – but what does a Domme dream about?

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Submitting to a Mistress

By slave christina:
This is my story of submitting to a Mistress. Sometimes you meet someone and there is an instant attraction. Other times you may take some time to find a level of happiness. Other times it is the situation you are both in that brings you together and sometimes it is the situation that keeps you together or forces you apart.


What is a Female Led Relationship really like?

By Giles English
I’m typing this wearing a male chastity device and I don’t get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm…
And Xena’s in charge.

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Puppy Play For Mistress – Chastity Tease And Orgasm Denial

Puppy Play For Mistress is a short FemDom story written for me by one of my submissives. He’s so very much into chastity tease and orgasm denial, as well as being made to act like a puppy… wagging tail, begging, barking for dinner – you get the idea. I hope you enjoy this story as much I repeatedly do. Happy Fetish Friday.