A Domme’s Fantasy: Your Submission

By Cara Sutra:
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if you were completely submissive to me. My mind tends to stray towards a sexual kinky fantasy – a Domme’s fantasy. They’re not talked about much, right? Usually all eyes are on the submissive – the submissive male, in the majority of FemDom – but what does a Domme dream about?

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Submitting to a Mistress

By slave christina:
This is my story of submitting to a Mistress. Sometimes you meet someone and there is an instant attraction. Other times you may take some time to find a level of happiness. Other times it is the situation you are both in that brings you together and sometimes it is the situation that keeps you together or forces you apart.


What is a Female Led Relationship really like?

By Giles English
I’m typing this wearing a male chastity device and I don’t get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm…
And Xena’s in charge.

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Puppy Play For Mistress – Chastity Tease And Orgasm Denial

Puppy Play For Mistress is a short FemDom story written for me by one of my submissives. He’s so very much into chastity tease and orgasm denial, as well as being made to act like a puppy… wagging tail, begging, barking for dinner – you get the idea. I hope you enjoy this story as much I repeatedly do. Happy Fetish Friday.

How to find sub space together this Valentines Day

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.


Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM
We can’t even blame 50 Shades for the idea of ‘absolute’ submission, because it’s been around for at least 30 years. And, while Anastasia Steele might be a vacant fumbletrumpet who appears to have reached adulthood without even knowing what an email is, she does dump Creepy Christian more than once and even answers back from time to time.


Fetish Friday: On TPE and useful slaves

In my life now being useful is the main thing I want from a slave. Earning my own income, having my own romantic long term relationship and juggling business and a family doesn’t leave a lot of time for tending to the fantasies and sex needs of men connecting with me hoping for the D/s ‘shiny porn’ equivalent of a toss-off or quickie. I’m not ‘in it’ for any payment-per-hour, it’s not a job for me, I don’t meet slaves for shiny-clad corporal punishment sessions on the basis that you have an hour spare this Thursday afternoon and have ‘always wanted some hot bitch to spit on my face babes init’. To be blunt, I don’t care what your fantasy is when I’m connecting with you as a Mistress or Domme; I care about what you can do for me and how you can improve my life and mood.


Your guide to the best bondage sex toys & fetish gear

When you begin shopping for bondage sex toys, the sheer amount of fetish accessories and variety of kinky restraints can be overwhelming and a little intimidating. You may not know where to begin, and might not even know what some of these strange but fascinating objects are used for. In this guide I am going to help remove the shroud of mystery from these curious items and help you welcome an exciting new dimension to your sex life.

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Choosing The Best Tools for Spanking, Corporal Punishment & Pain Fetish

So you want to get hitty with it? Has Fifty Shades of Grey got you all fired up for a bit of spanking action? Or do you hate absolutely everything 50 Shades and want to ‘do it properly’?
There are loads of different spanking tools out there that you can use for anything from a sensual bit of power play in the bedroom with your lover all the way up to a strict disciplinary at your local dungeon or fetish club.

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How do I fit BDSM into our relationship when I’m busy with work and kids?

How do I fit BDSM into our relationship when I’m busy with work and kids?
I’m happily married to a beautiful woman and, during our relationship, we have started to explore kink. We’ve discussed chastity and having a Female Led Relationship (FLR) but we have some problems.