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Want to know how to reignite the lust in your sex life? Bewildered by the array of sex toys and lubes out there and just not sure which is right? I’ll answer these questions and lots more in my advice column relating to sex toys, sex life and relationships. Ask Cara!

Ask Cara: How do I find the right Mistress?

On 16 May, 2012   /   Ask Cara, Blog, Fetish, Kinklog   /   Leave a comment

Hi Cara, I have been looking to get into the BDSM scene by Serving a mistress. How do I find a mistress that would be right for me? There are loads on different sites but as a complete novice I need some help. Regards Simon   Hi

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Can things get lost up your bum?

On 3 March, 2012   /   Ask Cara, Blog   /   Leave a comment

Dear Cara, I have heard that if you use toys anally, they can get lost inside you. Is this true? ————————————————————————– Hi and thanks for the question! There is some truth to what you say, not that it can actually get ‘lost’ inside you but that if

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Are there any cheap sex toys for couples to use together?

On 7 February, 2012   /   Ask Cara, Blog   /   Leave a comment

Dear Cara, We’ve been looking for some sex toys my man and I can use together for some time now. The We-Vibe family and the LELO Tiani styles are all very well but a little expensive for us right now. Aren’t there any cheap couples toys we

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My man has no interest in sex. Should I cheat?

On 7 February, 2012   /   Ask Cara, Blog   /   1 Comment

Dear Cara, At first I thought my man was really into me, but as time progresses he seems to have less and less interest in sex. It’s not as though I think he wants other women, he just doesn’t instigate anything sexual at all. I want to

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