Cara Sutra’s Blog

Welcome to Cara Sutra’s Blog, where you can enjoy erotic writing, sexuality chat, sex and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and a whole lot more. 

Cara Sutra's Blog

There are writer features in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author spotlight series, guest vibrator and bedroom product reviews with the Pleasure Panel at the Cara Sutra forum, Stampy Pants Rants by Cara Sutra and 100% original erotica written for you to perv in public or private…

“I couldn’t disguise the sexual hunger I felt as I admired her gorgeous breasts. Perfect shape, size… and her small pink nipples already hard and puckered. I lowered my head as she raised hers and took one of her nipples between finger and thumb, rolling it gently between them, as my tongue swirled over the bumpy areola of the other. The flat of my tongue first, then the tip flicking quickly for maximum sensation. Then swapping sides and rolling her now wet nipple between my fingers as I sucked and lapped at the other. The moans she was emitting above me were spurring me to continue…”
– Read more in Girl Date: The First Fuck Is The Sweetest

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How It Feels Watching Your Partner Fuck Someone Else

By Cara Sutra:
How would you feel if you saw your partner fuck someone else? I guess for many the answer would be colourful variants of pissed off. Catch 5 minutes of a daytime TV chat show to watch lie detector frenzies and accusations of cheating descend into all-out battle. The reality, when we add in consent and pre-discussion, is more complex and nuanced. A partner having sex with someone else doesn’t always mean they’re cheating on you or that you’ll feel betrayed.

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Galen Fous: The Kinky Sex & Relationship Advisor

By Galen Fous:
I am very excited to be introducing my new column, The Kinky Sex & Relationship Advisor to the Cara Sutra audience.
As a sex-positive Transpersonal psychologist and guide over the last 18 years, I have worked with hundreds of men, women and couples who sought support to be honest and empowered in their Kink sexuality.

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We’ve moved! Have you got my new address?

By Cara Sutra:
A week ago we finally moved into our gorgeous new forever home. You probably already know this if you follow on Twitter or Facebook, and receive my weekly newsletter. It’s taken every ounce of energy we had but finally, we’re in our new home. It really is feeling like home already, even though there’s still a staggering amount of boxes to unpack (only half of them are full of sex toys, with just a few of the others containing shoes).

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Preaching To The Perverted: Sequel!

Great news for fans of the 1997 cult film Preaching to the Perverted: Writer/Director Stuart Urban has come with an idea of for a sequel – Tortured in the Orchard – and wants to explore it first in the form of a graphic novel which will help raise funds towards the making of the film.

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Erica Hart – Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Erica Hart:
Role Play Scripts for the Modern Woman is a compilation of my role play scripts—based on the ones that most husband and I most enjoyed—and I’ve gone one step further and included details on how to build the anticipation and set up the scene. I want you, and other woman, to feel empowered, and being prepared is the best way to do that.

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Sexy Selfies And My Sex Life

By HornyGeekGirl:
For me a big part of my sex life (especially with those sexy friends who live further away) is sharing sexy photos. This can take many different forms. From a simple and totally PG photo of my smiling face, all the way to a very graphic shot of a very private area.

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Elizabeth Black – Erotic Author Spotlight Series

Elizabeth Black:
This week’s erotic author in the spotlight is Elizabeth Black, who shares insights about the lady behind the pen name in this fascinating feature below. A fellow cat lover, hurray! We’ve also been treated to an incredibly hot free excerpt as well as links to Elizabeth’s website and social media.

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Rape, Sexual Fantasies, Shame and Me

By Vanessa de Largie:
This adamant refusal to let the events and the perpetrators have any further power over me, mentally or physically, ties in very much to why rape fantasy is such an enjoyable roleplay and sexual fetish of mine. Rape fantasy and rapeplay isn’t a choice for me, it’s a need.

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Pride Brighton 2016

By Cara Sutra:
Pride has become an increasingly significant and strongly emotive movement for me. Not only are both my partner and I bisexual, we fall into the area of LGBTQ which is still incredibly misunderstood and which is surrounded by all sorts of ridiculous myths. I visited my first Pride last year and was delighted to be able to visit again this year – not just with my partner (and minnie also came along and drove us) but also with the elder of my two sons, who is 11.

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Chastity Release – Unlocking & Orgasm

By Cara Sutra:
He looked up at me from where he knelt on the kitchen floor, a solitary tear running down his defeated face. That just caused my cunt to become wetter in beautifully cruel empathy. Finally, he’d completed the distasteful task. His expert tongue protruded, but not out of rudeness or as a plea for pussy. On the tip was a small, very shiny key.