Cara Sutra’s Blog

Welcome to Cara Sutra’s Blog, where you can enjoy erotic writing, sexuality chat, sex and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and a whole lot more. 

Cara Sutra's Blog

There are writer features in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author spotlight series, guest vibrator and bedroom product reviews with the Pleasure Panel at the Cara Sutra forum, Stampy Pants Rants by Cara Sutra and 100% original erotica written for you to perv in public or private…

“I couldn’t disguise the sexual hunger I felt as I admired her gorgeous breasts. Perfect shape, size… and her small pink nipples already hard and puckered. I lowered my head as she raised hers and took one of her nipples between finger and thumb, rolling it gently between them, as my tongue swirled over the bumpy areola of the other. The flat of my tongue first, then the tip flicking quickly for maximum sensation. Then swapping sides and rolling her now wet nipple between my fingers as I sucked and lapped at the other. The moans she was emitting above me were spurring me to continue…”
– Read more in Girl Date: The First Fuck Is The Sweetest

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How to Have a Sexy Christmas with Your Man / Woman

Having worked in adult retail for 5 years, I’m no stranger to penning a sexy Christmas gift guide or 10. However it’s fair to say most of my work focuses on product marketing, even though buying the right things for sexy time does not a master make.
I could tell you which toys and lingerie I rate highest as we wrap up 2015, but if you haven’t done the ground work – there’s little point in your spending £$£$ on gear. As is becoming a bit of a Cara Sutra tradition, I’d like to deviate from the obvious Christmas gift guides and focus on some advice we can all get on board with.

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Event Report: Sexpo UK at London Olympia 2015

Sexpo isn’t a completely new venture, having enjoyed several successful shows around the world such as the US and Australia. November 2015 was the turn of the UK’s capital, and London welcomed Sexpo wholeheartedly and hoped we had a worthy predecessor to the much-missed Erotica show.

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Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength. During pegging, the focus often centers on the pleasure of the male recipient. However, in this article I’d like to focus on female pleasure too.

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Erotic Authors Spotlight Series: KC Cave

Some stalls didn’t have doors, and it was easy to walk by and see if any action was going on. Men either sat on the toilet or kneeled on towels as they serviced cocks protruding from the glory holes. In the adjacent stalls, they splayed their bodies against the cold metal walls, hands gripping the tops of the enclosures, their asscheeks clenching and unclenching as they were serviced through the glory holes.


How to have a safe & satisfying sex life when you’re single

With so much sex advice focussing on couples foreplay, how to spice up a monogamous sex life and how to keep a relationship happy, it’s easy to overlook the fact that there are plenty of sassy singles out there who want and deserve a satisfying sex life too. Contrary to popular opinion, many singles are not spending all their waking hours masturbating sadly and alone in their bedrooms while pining for the comforts that only a relationship with another person can provide.

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Imagination games for better sex and a better life

Fear of being foolish is the death of fun in a relationship. If you can’t just go for it, in sex or in anything, then your sex life is on the fast track to a funeral, and the part of you that wants to play—everyone has this part—that is dead, too. Rather than, or in addition to, more structured sexual experimentation—a la “7 Sex Positions Every Woman Must Try”—I encourage you to try bringing plain ol’ nonsexual play back into your life.

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Punish Your Readers… With Sensational Spanking Erotica

By Victoria Blisse
Where is the spanking taking place? How easy will it be for the spankee to stay still? It’s these little details which will make your scene all the more realistic. If you want a long, session with the submissive in the same position you’re going to need to get them comfortable, if you want to up the stakes get them into more unusual positions, maybe on their toes or you could have them restrained (I’ve written something to help you with that) or resting somewhere a bit precarious.

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Erotic Author Spotlight Series: Lizzie Ashworth

Hate rose in her chest, blinding her. She clamped her teeth down on his tongue, savoring a brief taste of blood as he jerked back.
“Vipera!” He wiped his hand over his mouth. “You won’t win this battle, but if you wish a contest…” His big hand closed over the neck of her garment and ripped it down the front of her body. The beautiful woolen dress she had so carefully woven hung off her shoulders.