Win one of 50 Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels sets!

FiftyWaystoPlay competition

To celebrate the release of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie trailer, Durex are giving 50 lucky Cara Sutra readers the chance to win a Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels set. That’s right, there is a mountainous FIFTY sets to give away!

All you need to do to enter is firstly, be a resident of the UK or Republic of Ireland, then share your best tip for heightening the intimacy and pleasure in the bedroom – as a comment on this blog post.

You can also share your tip on Twitter. Just make sure you place the specific competition hashtag in your tweet so that we’re able to find it: #FiftyWaysToPlay.

The competition will end at 9pm Friday 8th August, which gives you some time to think of your best tip(s) to share. You can enter will more than one tip, so get commenting and tweeting!

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To make it easy to see who has entered and how, I have also placed a rafflecopter competition widget below so that you can tick off the ways you’ve entered. There are also options to follow Durex and I on social media, although these are directional only and not entries into the competition. The only way you gain valid entry into this competition is by sharing a tip by blog post comment and/or tweet with the hashtag.

Once the best 50 tips have been selected after the competition ends, I will be contacting the 50 lucky winners in order to get their name and address details to let Durex know where to send your prize.

The sets will be sent directly from Durex, in beautiful packaging with discreet and safe outer packaging for the post.

You can also read the Cara Sutra review for the Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels here as well as a guest review here.

If you have any questions do comment below or contact me here.

Good luck everyone!

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222 Responses to “Competition: Share your best sex tip to win one of 50 Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels Sets!”

  1. samantha rummens

    being blindfolded heightens your other sense make sex more intense and not know what you partner is about to do to you is very exciting

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  2. DAVE

    WHEN YOUR HAVING A BLOW JOB DON’T BITE DOWN TOO HARD ON THE PILLOW, AS WHEN YOUR BALLS ARE BEING BITTEN THERES FEATHERS EVERYWHERE

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  3. Natalie Crossan

    Look into your partners eyes!

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    • Natalie Crossan

      Twitter: @nattycrossaint (as I’ve seen you’ve tweeted that I haven’t shared a tip)

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  4. Bernie W

    My best tip would be to light candles and turn out the lights to create a romantic atmosphere.

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  5. dynamiteminx

    Keep experimenting with new things so your sex life always stays fresh!

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  6. Jess T

    Talk to each other before, during and after. And remember that 90% of talking isn’t vocal. 😉

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  7. Kiran Parry

    Always close curtains and get turn the lamp on so theres a bit of light in the room but not too much.

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  8. Rosa

    Always let your partner know when things feel good, whether it’s by moaning or by actually saying it. And if things don’t feel good, don’t be afraid to show them/tell them what does!

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  9. sarah

    always talk to your partner, what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you want to try. i would also recommend girls to give blow jobs i didn’t think i would like giving them but i do.

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  10. SUZANNE DRUMMOND

    let your partner know what you like and would like to try

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  11. Rachel

    Relax, be gentle and value the relationship.

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  12. Joanna Butler-Savage

    lots of wine beforehand and some fetish gear

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  13. Fgbas

    Make sure the phones are turned off!

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  14. karen cowley

    Use lots of toys , so much fun xxx

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  15. Richard Hill

    me and the wife love to use toys and blindfolds which help in hightening pleasure

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  16. Phil

    A few glasses of wine and soft music

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  17. hayley

    Be a little adventurous and try anything to spice things up 😉

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  18. Rachael omara

    Watch and hold your partners shaft as he thrusts inside u-a big turn on I find ;0)

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  19. laura stewart

    make it romantic- candles- wine flowers xx

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  20. lynn Heath

    Don’t be afraid to try new things – you never know what you might like!

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  21. Sandra Lane

    Forget the bedroom, try making love outdoors (weather permitting)

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  22. sarah archibald

    blindfold.

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  23. Harriet

    Relax with massage oils.

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  24. Charlotte Carter-Dunn

    Trying new things, the more exciting the better!

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  25. Nick Hopkins

    Do not skimp on foreplay. Explore many areas of each other`s bodies to find the most sensitive zones.

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  26. Sandra

    New experiences.. Experiment and trust !

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  27. Glen

    Be equal if you get – give

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  28. Amanda A

    Looking into each others eyes is very erotic and don’t be afraid to try other things.
    Also making time for each other is important – make a date night with each other and keep to it!

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  29. Carl

    Enjoy having sex anywhere but don’t forget to be safe it does not always have to be scary

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  30. adam parker

    Get your partner to puit popping candy in her mouth then give you a blow job awesome sensation

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  31. suzy rice

    be confident and u will be totally sexy,and feel every touch and caress,and have fun.

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  32. David Bailey

    Don’t be afraid to try new things

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  33. di dilly

    Don’t get caught…….always a passion killer!

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  34. cavey01uk

    Yes I agree with Sandra, outdoors is great

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  35. vicki brigham

    Slow and Steady…

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  36. Margarete

    Always tell your partner what you like, but be equally open to what they like…

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  37. mark b

    Take your time and enjoy each other

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  38. Kim

    Kissing during sex for me is important, such a turn on and makes me feel so intimate with my partner, embracing more than simply shagging.

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  39. sean evans

    My wife made me christen my new garden through use of the my work bench. The thought of being outdoors and getting caught by the neighbours is exhilarating. Watch out for splinters though

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  40. Chris

    Instead of diving straight for the clitoris, spend time around the area. Run your tongue over the lips and folds, press it gently into the soft bits, run it around but not on the clit itself. Push your tongue into the vagina like a mini penis a few times in between running it over everything else. This will drive the woman wild and she’ll beg you to lick her clit. This should take a good 20 mins, so take your time and settle in. Then go to the clit and start rubbing gently with the tip of your tongue, then off, then on, building up the time SLOWLY (in between go back to the other areas) until you just focus on her clit. Now is the time to slip two fingers in her. keep going at a steady speed on her clit (DO NOT speed up just because she moans faster) and before you know it she will moan like crazy and have the best orgasm she’s had for years. Oh, and she’ll love you for it and be amazed at your skill 🙂

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  41. ami bhati

    A Warm Water shower followed by cold just before making love heightens the sensual pleasure during the love-making

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  42. Alyson Fletcher

    Try different things. Write down what you would like to try and give it to your partner, we do this every month, its fun and exciting as you don’t know when they will carry out the ask. x

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  43. David Reilly

    Jump into the shower for a quick hot make out session!

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  44. Chris

    Using oils as foreplay will heighten the woman’s senses. Using scented oils is best but baby oil will do if that’s all you have. Focus on her neck, thighs, legs, arms and back. Be gentle – remember your not a trained masseuse. then breasts, shoulders, etc. Work your way up and then down, front and back. It will really put her in a good frame of mind.

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  45. [email protected]

    Talk dirty, take your time, lots of foreplay & exploring… Remembering there is no time limit!! Ps durex play tingle is amazing!! Men loved to be touched in many places!! As do us women

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  46. kate baker

    Just let your emotions take you wherever they want!

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  47. Chris

    Get into the right mood will help for great sex. Do not just grab her and throw her on the bed (unless she likes this of course, now and again is good fun 😉 ). Have a romantic dinner, set the scene, good food, good music, dress the part – woo her, like you did when you first met. Then lead her into the bedroom. Clean, fresh sheets, fresh rose petals on white sheets, scented candles, low lighting. She’ll probably giggle and make fun of you, but she will secretly love it as it makes her feel special that you went to the trouble.

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  48. Sarah franklin

    Worth a try

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  49. Christina kuczerepa

    Put on some sexy underwear as the sexy you feel the better the sex, a little pleasure gel is fab too

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  50. louise prothero

    Wear the sexiest outfit you can find. The feel of the outfit will all play a part in how it makes you feel so go for something that has a sexy material (not cotton!) You both will not want to take it off, so keep it on!

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  51. Steven Kilby

    Let me experience my fantasy 😛 🙂

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  52. Kevin

    My best tip is find someone who enjoys sex. Certainly heighten my pleasure

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  53. Brendan O' Sullivan

    Gently lick your partners nipples while gentlt rubbing your lobricated fingers over the anal passage of your partner

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  54. Jeff Lloyd

    A small amount of toothpaste applied to the tip of your tongue immediately before oral sex can work wonders for your partner.

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  55. Samantha Marquis

    Don’t just keep it in the bedroom! Always take time to try new things and remember to TALK to each other – flirty messages can lead to much more later! Be confident too ♡

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  56. Jean Cosgrove

    Being blindfolded heightens the other senses. Anything your partner does is unexpected and is more pleasurable

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  57. dave

    Be open and adventourous as your partner,no holds barred leads to heightened sexual pleasure for both of you.

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  58. Benny Rees

    Take your time. The more you learn about how your partner reacts to touch, the better you will be in pleasuring your partner. Remember – what you put in is what you get back!

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  59. Benny Rees

    Never be too squeamish about trying new things. Legality of things should be the boundary – not your prejudices or misconceptions.

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  60. Georgia

    Foreplay really helps ensure the erection is at it’s highest, therefore pleasure is much more fulfilling. Also when having sex my partner loves my orgasm, it turns him on more.

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  61. Benny Rees

    Remember – blackmail of any sort (“if you really loved me, you’d to this”) does not have any place not just in a bedroom, but in a healthy relationship at all. Equal partnership should be about finding a compromise, a little give and take, and also about respecting each other’s boundaries.

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  62. Debbie Astbury

    For the ladies always drink plenty of water before a good session ! helps to keep you moist

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  63. Maria Sullivan

    use tingle gels to enhance erogenous zones

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  64. Katie Browell

    One of the most important things is to be clear about what your enjoying, if you are both getting the most pleasure out of foreplay and sex it will strengthen your relationship and make everything even more pleasurable. Being totally open with each other makes for more powerful and trusting sex. After that find ways of heightening your senses, with oils, orgasm balms, tingle lubes, being restrained or blindfolded. Or if your partner is stressed or nervous try relaxation, massages are very sensual and relaxed muscles will make for better flexibility and movement as well as pleasure. Experiment with what is right for both of you and never be afraid to try new things, as long as you are safe and responsible sex can take you anywhere!

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  65. jasmyn

    I say as long as it light you have eyes open watch him watch you, a few gentle toys of forplay, followed by some intense loving, if hes pleased im turned on. If you wanna hold out longer tease tease tease x

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  66. karin

    pay attention to the mans scrotum slowly and gently taking one at a time in to your mouth drives them wild

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  67. Kelly

    Making time for one another, be spontaneous and try new things, the feelings of the unexpected is always a pleasure heightener

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  68. nina clarke

    always talk to your partner before and after sex and have foreplay fun before with durex lubes

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  69. CLARE ROBERTS

    Take your time and make sure you have a shower before and after!

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  70. lianne wightman

    always be open to trying new things to keep the passion alive

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  71. Martin Broughton

    Hold your cock with your hand and let it in only a bit at a time… Imagine it is a pen and you are writing inside her.. I’ve noticed it drives her wild when I spell out ‘I love you’ and bite her sharply on the neck…

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  72. Reece

    Both need to imagine that your partner is a celebrity crush and then it works

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  73. Aleksandra

    Some cudling after experimenting with something kinky, helps your partner feel reassured and loved

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  74. Linda Toth

    Change the poses and locations – have a fun!

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  75. Susie Wilkinson

    Turn your girlfriend on by doing the housework, it works for me, nothing sexier than knowing he cares

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  76. Zoe Bryan

    a few glasses of mind so you are more open to try new things. Making sure both people are relaxed and you have a safe word so each person knows when to stop. Even if you are feeling unsure about something try it if you don’t like it you know not to do it again and you know you have your safe word to make it all stop.

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  77. Jodi Hess

    Sex isn’t dirty, sex is amazing. You should never feel ashamed. Enhance your life and don’t be afraid to try new things. Let go of your inhabitants and enjoy it 🙂

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  78. hanablu3

    Build up the tension through out the day .. suggestive text messages,steamy emails and a phone call or 2 ..

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  79. Gary

    Washing your mouth out with listerin before going down really gets the girls tingerling

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  80. Mike

    Try all things once

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  81. Dave

    Tease before beginning as long as you can

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  82. Toni Bradley

    using ice cubes on hot places and blowing to make a tingling sensation or polo mints, (blindfolded, and handcuffed leaves your partner in control intimacy and trust go hand in hand leading to the best sex ever)

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  83. Hayley Evans

    tell your partner what turns you on and make sure you ask them (after a session of course, don’t want to spoil the moment) so that you can focus on the best bits and get full enjoyment

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  84. Caroline Johnson

    Have fun and don’t be tense. Let your body go with the follow. Xxx

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  85. Gemma Hill

    Your man’s adams apple is sensitive. try stroking and licking it lightly and watch your man go wild!

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  86. sarah

    dont be afraid to tell each other what you want.

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  87. janine wright

    sexy underwear, scented candles, some nice smelling massage oil, a partner and a tube of toothpaste for some tingling experiences

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  88. Judy

    Build up the anticipation with texts beforehand, then plenty of foreplay

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  89. cheryl brady

    sex and plenty of it.x

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  90. julie laing

    Loads of foreplay and relax. Also take a mouthful of cold water before giving a blow job for a different sensation and don’t forget the balls.

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  91. ANDREW ROWLANDS

    CANDLES

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  92. laura jones

    make sure the room is warm you wont be interrupted relax in a nice bubbly bath with a glass of something nice but most of all communicate!

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  93. Zoe

    Don’t be shy to try new things (after all how do you know you like something if you don’t try it?)

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  94. Hannah

    Always make it interesting, it feels so much better with a rush of excitement or adrenalin coursing with the climax trust me 😉

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  95. Michelle Brownlow

    Blind folds are wonderful for heightening pleasure, also really knowing the persons mind, and trusting them will lead to fab pleasures

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  96. 007anna

    relax

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  97. loulou

    Ifind a good old blowjob heihtens the mood for me and my partner then plenty of play with eacher sex lasts for hours lol

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  98. Karen

    Don’t get straight to it take your time and enjoy the foreplay touch, kiss and caress each other and tease each other for a bit. It will excite you both a whole lot more and make the moment a lot more passionate and intense.

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  99. Sarah Nixon

    Go with the flow- have your code words but let the play lead you wherever you want to go

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  100. Susan H

    a light meal a cool room.

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  101. Tina

    read a little porn to each other to get in the mood-Lesbian porn especially!

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  102. Mark

    Be spontaneous….surprise your partner with someone new now and then and not just in the bed room!

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  103. Tony

    Listen to your partners needs & requests. Dont rush, its not a race 😉

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  104. stewart

    Don’t rush anything, time and patience, don’t rush in start off gently and stay gentle if thats what your partner wants or prefers, not everybody is into rough sex, in fact most are not, you both need to pass on your needs to each other, understanding goes a long way.

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  105. Sarah G.

    Dull the lights. Let him put on some nice R&B slow jams, while you go into the bathroom to get changed into your sexiest lingerie. When you’re done go back to him, push him on the bed and dance on him, go with rhythm of the song playing. As your dancing on him, give him gentle kisses, especially on his neck, then start undressing him. You will know what to do from there

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  106. Michael

    don’t rush take your time, and make sure you do lots of forplay to make the woman cum as many times as you can before you do 🙂

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  107. Nigel

    Whipped cream or chocolate is fun

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  108. Josh Harris-Jones

    One of the best pieces of advice I can give is to be confident. It makes a world of difference when you shake off the feeling that things are to embarrassing to say or do and really get involved with the experience, and I tell you, when you get started saying and doing things confidently, you not only start sounding like a suave James Bond type lover, but you realise there are a lot of things you didn’t know you could do, or even things you didn’t know you liked! Thanks 😉

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  109. neki

    hummm while giving a blow job

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  110. Melissa

    Mix it up! Never be afraid to try something new as you’ll probably end up having mind-blowing sex just by making small changes!

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  111. laura

    Wear something extra sexy start with foreplay, kissing massage licking fondling ect, men don’t go straight downstairs make her tingly and wet. Use the erogenous zones to your advantage. There are ways to make her “cum” without penile entry

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  112. laura

    Dont be afraid to explore toys…men like vibrators too

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  113. lou

    Lots of foreplay. If you are planning to make love tonight, tease each other a lot during the day. Send a SMS, text, picture or video or call each other to tell how excited you are looking forward to the night time. Run a warm bubbles bath with aromatic candles, dim the lights, put on the music and tell each other how you want to be teased, to heighten up the tension! & into the bedroom, play with each other, discover every inch of the bodies like never before before you go into it! Whisper and feel for each other!

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  114. emma falvi

    take your time

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  115. reece

    Kegel exercises plenty of fruit pausing before climax cliteral stimulation and biting scratching etd

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  116. Ryan

    Be open to trying new positions and bondage accessories to make things twice as fun and pleasurable

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  117. Tamsin Dean

    to relax and have fun, also dicusse both your likes/dislikes

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  118. Ksenia

    It’s good to change sex dynamic to surprise and excite your partner. For example, be more active if you’re normally passive.

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  119. Janine

    Take your time

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  120. Kimberley

    Always make time for sex and be fun and adventurous with each other.

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  121. Natasha Minard

    lv 2 put on romantic music n sexy underwear push my partner on 2 bed wind him up by doing a sexy dance n bobs ur uncle omg the love making me n my partner do is out of this world its amazing if I could die in his hands naked I would b 1 hell ov a lucky lady my man knw how 2 pls me n same bck.soz guys off 2 bed 4 mad passionate love making even after 9yrs sex is still lyk it was frm 1st day we met lv my man so much im off peeps iv got my man waiting Mmmmmm

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  122. Gemma Whitely

    Always be comfortable with each other and always be open to experimenting. these things don’t need to be rushed just take your time to find out what each other likes. but never forget to be intimate with things like a soft name call or gentle caress. Doing this can and will lead to a better bedroom life and intimacy!

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  123. Amy

    Temperatures. Ice cubes, cool mints, warm wax, warm lubes. @AmyPop26 twitter

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  124. Rikki Paul

    Just before orgasm during intercourse, withdraw then give her oral sex, then when you arent near orgasm, resume intercourse and repeat several times. while you save your orgasm, she has millions, in which the one you have right at the end is amazing 😉 trust me, itll be a night to remember 🙂

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  125. Lauren

    I think what makes sex fantastic is the work up to it, so begin slowly, teasing, kissing up against the walls, holding each other down. And then once on the bed kissing slowly down your body and the use of ice cubes going down your body and then being blown on.
    Always take youR time aswell and do whatever you like(aslong as youre partner does like it aswell though) but let the moments take you away

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  126. Rob.C

    Strangly

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  127. Roxi Fairbank

    Dim lighting makes you feel more confident, but also enhances curves and makes you look sexier.

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  128. scarlett

    When giving a blow job lick from the balls right up the shaft and the tip of the penis then suck as much as possible whilst digging nails into their right thigh. 😉

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  129. Sarah-Jayne Windridge-France

    Whoever said ‘A bit of what you fancy does you good’ .. absolutely nailed it … ‘scuse the pun! 😉

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  130. becca staples

    Communication is key, but spice things up abit and don’t get in routines

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  131. Kathy

    relax and enjoy.

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  132. Bill reddick

    Never hurry the moment, run your tongue from her ears to her feet. Usually give her an orgasm with your tongue first to totally relax her and make her feel like the queen she is. Say no to wham ,bang, thank you mam.

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  133. stacey robinson

    dressing up makes things exciting as well as using blind folds and spur of the moment spontaneous sex if great fun

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  134. stacey robinson

    facebook: stacey early bird robinson
    twitter @stacey160486
    pinterest lotsoflaughs86

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  135. Mark Chamberlin

    Stroking the skin, caressing and kissing the neck or the inside of the elbow or wrist works for me. K.I.S.S!

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  136. mark brunt

    Viagra always works for me.

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  137. Kirsty Brown

    Teasing and depriving him of a kiss always works wonders for instantly turning him on.

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  138. 58deluxe

    Too fe People realise that it is the mind that needs stimulating the most… everything that follows is just friction!

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  139. kebabjones76

    be open minded and spontaneous. have things hidden around the house so just because your having a quickie in the kitchen doesn’t mean you can’t play 😉

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  140. Annmarie

    Listen to some heavy metal music while having sex!
    Also glide ice cubes along your partners inner thighs and lower arms! 😉 x

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  141. Laura Oxley

    Make an effort in your appearance

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  142. Laura Muir

    Eating a couple of mints before a blowjob …apparently feels amazing …then blow gently on the tip after and it sends chills down ur mans penis 🙂

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  143. Chris123456789

    Be open with your partner, know what they want to try. Always talk and change positions and technique so it doesn’t get boring

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  144. Amanda Odonnell

    Check out Nina Hartley’s instructional videos together!

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  145. Julia Plummer

    Being blindfolded and your partner using a feather definitely heightens your senses, using a dimly lit room with scented candles also sets a lovely romantic atmosphere! Just make sure you always have a safety word, just incase things get too much and you need a break! Also a durex vibrating ring is lots of fun for both of you! Hope I win and get to try this prize I can’t wait to try it!

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  146. sean

    Simply turn down the heating (in this country, erect nipples are an easy way to show heightened erogenous zones – and with delicate touching, you’ll shiver not just from the chill), turn down the lights (best achieved night not morning!) but turn up the body contact and share your pleasure. Soft, sensitive touch to lighten the mood, and even some playful tickling – nothing as sexy as a woman’s giggle. All the fun you want, and even save money on those reduced energy bills!

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  147. Nicola b

    Dare him to not get aroused when you play with him!

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  148. Benny Rees

    Ladies, don’t stop a blowjob three seconds before your partner comes just to avoid taking cum in your mouth – learn to like the taste of cum, and also don’t stop until good ten seconds after he comes – penis is very sensitive at that point, so mega pleasure is to be derived from this!

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  149. YOLANDA DAVIS

    Don’t be embarased to tell your partner what you like. Be careful how you say it so it doesn’t come across as though what he or she have been doing is wrong or bad. Everyone is different, so every partner isn’t necessarily going to like things done the same way. Asking or telling a partner how to turn you on is a turn on in itself

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  150. Arif Kalooji

    To make love under a waterfall

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  151. victoria barrett

    have fun walist playing to enjoy together

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  152. Phil Bunyan

    Talk about everything! Your likes, dislikes, turn ons and turn offs. If you want to speed up or slow down. The key to any successful sex life is a proper understanding of each other.

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  153. claire little

    Ice always gets those senses going

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  154. angela hefferman

    gently bind your partner so there movements are restricted and gently kiss and massage them .then suck there cock till they are beggin you to stop .

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  155. Rach

    Emotional intimacy can be as sexy as physical closeness

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  156. Darren

    Candles, oils, massage, rose petals to set the mood for foreplay

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  157. victoria bundy

    SETTING THE SCENE
    Set the scene for intimacy with sensual music, candles, a shift in place Don’t limit intimacy to the bedroom create a stage for an encore performance in the living room, kitchen. stairs, bathroom right lighting, right mood and sets. Stimulating your creativity as you prepare actually stimulates the sexual drive.

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  158. kiwi

    Sometimes a small role had no idea how much boost it can give to the other.

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  159. Deb

    Relax, candles ,music ,bath

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  160. leanne

    Playrole is always a good way

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  161. bella

    Take total control over your partner and don’t let him touch you during sex, while he is blindfolded! it does wonders!

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  162. sarah rees

    eye contact

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  163. Phil Jenkins

    Blindfold and Handcuffs and just let your partner do whatever they want with you…

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  164. cassie

    trust your partner and take the time to explore eachother…body oil, and massage are the way to go.

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  165. kev walker

    A small bottle of champagne used in the right way can seriously enhance the experience beyond belief

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  166. Tim

    Communication is key to sharing the best of sexual intimacy. Being open & honest about what you both like & don’t like before you start makes the act of having sex so much more pleasurable. The heightened arousal from the talk will be amazing every time. Spend more time focused on the foreplay and don’t look at foreplay as the precursor to the act of sex, view it as an equal and essential part of sex. The last thing you need to remember, always have lube on hand and right by you so if and when it is needed, it is ready and waiting and you don’t loose the mood going on a search for it.

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    • Tim

      I am a resident of the US so I am not eligible for your great contest but wanted to share my tip regardless.

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  167. sarah haffenden

    have scented candles burning and one of blindfolded while the other starts foreplay of ur choice….. light different scents through to change the mood as u change play…..

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  168. clare

    be spontaneous :O)

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  169. Danni Derbyshire

    relax, its meant to be fun !!

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  170. Jade Clarke

    Blindfolds really work to enhance the other senses increasing pleasure 🙂

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  171. anthony

    The man should cook a romantic candle lit meal followed by a bath full of bubbles and scented candles and then take charge in the bedroom for a night of fantastic intimacy.

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  172. Lewis

    Risk always brings a high level of excitement I believe.

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  173. Carmen Perry

    Would love to give the Durex Play a go, looks like fun!

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  174. marta

    I make almost everythink with mens, but I now one think respect, lisen you can make the most crazy think but dont forget to respect your partner needs.

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  175. Carima

    Reverse cowboy and take charge!

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  176. Natalie Gillham

    Look into each others eyes and stroke more to increase intimacy and pleasure 🙂 x

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  177. Phil McAllister

    Be natural, relax and enjoy. Share the experience…..and yes that may mean multiple partners. Be safe and always use Durex…it will stop a visit to the Dr for STI’s and Pregnancy !

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  178. paul

    When doing anal tilt your pelvis forward to relieve any uncomfortable pain and enjoy your best orgasm ever

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  179. Misskitty

    Eye contact intensifies everything!

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  180. john

    when going down on your female partner suck on an ice cube as the coldness heightens their sensation and gives a better orgasm and when giving a blowjob use a breath mint as it will also make his experience more pleasureable

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  181. Robby Price

    Give more pleasure than taking

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  182. chris parham

    make sure you have plenty of build up before you close the door

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  183. jenrhymer

    Lots of food, especially ice cream – messy but fun

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  184. clare

    trying new things! to keep it fresh and exciting

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  185. Haley Faulkner

    i like to kiss and lick my partner from head to toe teasing him so much that he begs for release

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  186. Lesley ford

    It seems you only have to read all these blog comments then your good to go with the added satisfaction of Durex

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  187. tina edwards

    oral sex, fantastic orgasms

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  188. Elizabeth Williams

    Using a blindfold helps heighten all the other senses.

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  189. Kay panayi

    I like to put a pillow under my bum so when my partner goes In me slowly to start then hard it goes proper deep

    Twitter – @kaypmumof3

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  190. Monika S

    two words- Role Play

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  191. Jackie Chapman

    Talk to each other. Always let your partner know what you like and what you don’t like

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  192. Danielle

    Using a bullet vibrator to stimulate the Clitoris, gives a free hand to move gentle around the females body to encourage an orgasm

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  193. michelle

    loose control and enjoy it!!

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  194. Grizzly

    The best tip for increasing intimacy is communication. The more you communicate with your partner, the more new experiences you will both have!

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  195. Hayley Manton

    Blindfolds! Heighten all your senses and feelings. Definitely recommend! @MantonHayley

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  196. Eleanor Powell

    don’t hold back, do what you feel, be spontaneous, act out your fantasies, have fun! And most of all don’t keep it in the bedroom!!!

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  197. carol boffey

    explore each other

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  198. K L

    Relaxing music and a massage.

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  199. Daniel Reid

    A sensual massage helps get things warmed up

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  200. cath brace

    light candles and have dimmed lighting 🙂

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  201. Victoria B

    Be in love. When you are in love with the person you are having sex with, there’s a much better connection, heightening the pleasure!

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  202. Martin

    Let chocolat melt on your partners body and than lick it away … at any place you like 🙂

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  203. laura

    Before giving a blow job spend time stroking and sucking balls, licking and playing with penis – build the anticipation.

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  204. catriona nation

    Take your time don’t rush

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  205. lindsey

    Dont be scared to explore your fantasies be brave and discuss this with your partner
    Spice things up, do some role play!!! WOW mega fun and full of pleasure and sparks hehe

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  206. Sue McCarthy

    When I was younger I was always too shy and scared of getting pregnant to do lots of “sexy” stuff.
    However, after being widowed twice by the age of 40, I have realised (after having an amazing sexual relationship with my boyfriend 13 years my junior) that life is too short to be shy & scared. My advice would be to try different things, after all if you don’t like it, you can stop there and you don’t have to do it again.
    A confident woman is the biggest turn on for a man; he won’t even notice your spare tyres or wobbly bits.
    But the guilt I carry is immense now I realise what an amazing sex life I could have given both my husbands…………

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  207. [email protected]

    Respect each other and each other body

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  208. beckie

    try eating mints before oral sex, the feeling is amazing for both parties, the cool mint feels amazing and should have you reaching climax really quickly

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  209. Shaw 91

    My tip would be a 69er as foreplay, makes the sex amazing! Also to be able to talk about what is good and what hasn’t been so good in sex, makes sex hotter when you know what each other likes and knowing it’ll be great.

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  210. taja mckenzie

    4. Practice being present outside of the bedroom.

    Presence is like any other skill—it take time to develop. For most people, it’s usually easier to learn how to be present during activities other than sex first. Try spending five minutes a few times a day sitting quietly and paying attention to your internal world. Practice noticing your body when you’re in motion, perhaps as you’re walking down the street or as you’re working out.

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  211. David Robinson

    Plenty of foreplay and don’t forget the ice cubes to heighten the sensation

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  212. ram

    turn lights out

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    when giving a blowjob, squeeze your thumb between your fingers and it stops you gagging, i didnt think this would work but i tried it and ti works a treat!

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